That’s right, today you’re getting the basics of “Not Qualifying”
yourself.
One of the simplest rules of socializing is that the person who qualifies themselves more has LOWER value.
This is aptly summed up by the statement:
“A rich man does not tell you he is rich.”
Yet, almost every guy I meet in the seduction community start off by telling me how much they get laid, how hooked up they are, or how much money they make.
Qualifying yourself to girls when you first meet them is a TERRIBLE idea because it shows her you are trying to impress her and think she is of higher value. Not a good place to game from.
Here’s a few ways to avoid qualifying yourself.
In the first 15 minutes of meeting people – Avoid bragging about possessions, places you’ve traveled, or people you’ve met.
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Avoid trying to make people see things your way or “understand” you. Even if you are “right”.
Avoid explaining yourself or your behavior as much as possible. When you have to explain yourself, keep it SIMPLE.
Bad Example:
Girl: Why do you want to kiss me?
Guy: Because I’m attracted to you and want to express it physically in an intimate manner.
Good Example:
Girl: Why do you want to kiss me?
Guy: Who knows? (Go in for the kiss)
Keep the cool things about you to yourself until the group has “accepted you.”
It’s not bragging if the girls ask you about it. Use unanswered questions in your conversations to bait the girls into asking you questions about the cool stuff in your life.
Ok, that should help you guys to avoid qualifying yourself.
Now you may be saying, “That list is great and all, but what about the details? How do I acquire all of those skills if I’m shy, awkward, and don’t have a lot of time to invest?”…
You’ll find the simple, straightforward answer to that here.