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3 Shocking Rough Sex Secrets That Will Have Her Begging You For More…

Many guys I know who use these 3 techniques get regular texts from women saying things like “I’m so wet thinking about last night” or “I can’t wait to feel your touch again.”

Believe it or not, it’s actually very easy.

1) Hold Her Down.
Women (especially feminine women) love feeling contained during sex since it allows her to feel secure, and she can freely express her sexuality with you.

The easiest way to do this is to take her wrists, and hold them together over her head while you’re on top of her. You can do this while making out, or during sex.

You can also hug her tight, and keep her “secured” that way. The important thing is that she feels restrained, and in a way, under your control.

2) The “Spank”.
Spanking a girl is the easiest way to get into impact play, since you’re not going to hurt her by slapping her on the butt. And honestly, in my experience, it’s pretty rare to find a girl who doesn’t like it after she’s tried it.

Start firmly, and with an open palm. To judge whether she likes it, you can ask, “Is that hard enough for you?” or “Want it harder?”

That allows you to stay in control and keep her feeling good without losing any dominance.

3) The “Choke”.
This is the most advanced of these 3 moves by far. And it’s probably the toughest to master.

When choking her, you do not want to squeeze her windpipe. And you don’t want to grab her carotid arteries on the side of her neck too hard to where she passes out.

You want to choke her just right… with just enough pressure that she feels totally under your control in bed without getting hurt.

So start a little bit lighter than you might think, and focus on lightly pressing against her carotid arteries.

If she wants you to choke her harder, she’ll tell you.

Another way to do this is to grab her on the back of the neck. Since that’s muscle, you can be a little rougher, and she’ll love it since it’ll still feel like you’re in control.

Those 3 Rough Sex Secrets will get you started on your way to being the dominant, in-charge guy she wants in the bedroom.

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It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited!

It’s frustrating to see men get so confused by husbands who just don’t get that when the day is through and the responsibilities of the day are complete, their wives just don’t seem to be in the mood.

Hmmm.

Women don’t think like you.

A man’s thinking is very compartmentalized. He can think, “OK the laundry’s done, the motorcycle is fixed, phone calls are all returned. The itinerary is set for work in the morning. So what now? I know! Let’s have sex!”

And then they go find their wives and initiate. To varying results.

A woman is like a 74 Cadillac on a cold winter morning. You have to warm that 472 cubic inch V-8 before you can step on the gas. You can’t simply start the engine in 20-degree weather and go.

You can’t just walk up to an unaroused woman, perhaps distracted by the stresses of the day, pat her on the ass and say “let’s go.” Well, you could, but I wouldn’t recommend it.

You must master the art of mental foreplay. You must have her engine running all day, even for days on end.

It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited.

Once you’ve done that properly, the sky is the limit.

You can tell her to do anything, and she will do it. And especially because you tell her to do it. That is especially exciting for her. It is one of the many ways that a woman pleases her man, by demonstrating her responsiveness to him.

But you must create the excitement. How?

With dirty talk. Or I could say “erotic narration” or “storytelling.”

Dirty talk is not spewing a string of profanity at your woman. It is not being raunchy.

There is a difference between dirty talk and raunchy talk. Raunchy talk turns off all women.

It reeks of horny. It cheapens the act. It is degrading.

It is contradictory to having respect for her as an individual.

She could not possibly respond to it, because to do so would define her as a slut, cheap, and loose.

And it puts the man in the category of “most men.” It takes away from the “uniqueness” of him.

The magic of proper mental foreplay is appreciating her. Letting her know how beautiful and attractive she is.

And then engage in sexy storytelling that will make her imagination run wild.

Dirty talk and mental foreplay are completely covered in the program, “Give Women Hot Phone Sex.” While you will be lethal with a phone, the concepts are critical to all aspects of a relationship and should be continuously applied.

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Give Women Hot Phone Sex

The female horniness crisis

There is a worldwide crisis afoot.

And I’m not talking about immigration, nationalism, or freedom of speech…

I’m talking about the underlying crisis that is causing all the above…

…Women aren’t getting the sex that they need.

Women are horny monsters.

Their lack of getting what they need and men’s frustration at being unable to provide it is creating all the underlying tension at the root of society’s ills. It could destroy the world.

We all need to do our part to stop this from happening.

I have found in most cases, women are far hornier than men.

One woman I knew who was in her late 30s told me, “I get so damn horny! I feel like a 16-year-old boy. It’s not fair!” Another woman told me, “It gets worse at the time I ovulate. Every man I see with a cute butt I want to jump him right then and there and ride him hard!”

Even so, women ONLY do these things when led by a man.

They cannot do it themselves. They cannot initiate themselves.

They can’t even suggest it because that would be contrary to being a woman. She needs a man to lead her.

Where is she going to find such a man? Men like this are extremely rare.

That’s why the world is going to hell, and that’s what makes the master lover such a precious find.

That’s why as many men as possible need to learn how to lead!

Look I get it, we were all fooled by social conditioning…

Social conditioning protects women from men who only want to use women for sex.

If social conditioning trains people to believe that women must first be in love to have sex or that they must first be in a committed relationship, then women always have a defense against men who view women as simply objects. Rightly so.

It keeps teenagers in check. Parents teach their children that sex is only for love and marriage so their children won’t go out and have sex and end up with teenage pregnancies.

And that worked for generations.

The problem now with first, second, third wave feminism and things like #metoo is that men and women have been made equal. Some would argue women have been put above men.

I’m not arguing the politics or ethics of any of this, I’m simply pointing out that men are confused and turning away from taking any kind of lead and women are increasingly isolated from men and frustrated.

Somebody has to be the adult in the room, take charge and set things right.

That’s us.

You need the power to take charge, first of yourself and then of your relationships with women in and out of the bedroom.

Ready to join the cause?

Enlist here, now before it’s too late.

Mass celibacy and sexual frustration will throw the world into another dark age.

It’s not too much to say you are doing your part to save the planet.

Learn how to dominate once and for all.

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Warning signs she doesn’t find you attractive

This is one of my favorite quotes (related to girls):

“Chicks are like hunters, they want to bag a lion or a bear.. something really hard to catch. And along comes you. You are like this affectionate little puppy.”

You’re cute, you’re nice, you have a lot in common with her… but you’re way too easy to catch. And that bores her.

And with chicks, boredom = death.”

The question you need to ask yourself is “how easy am I to catch?”

Remember, dogs don’t chase rocks sitting on the ground.

They chase rabbits that dart in and out of bushes.

So, how do you get a girl to chase you?

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Tempted by another man

This came in from Erika:

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I’m semi-happily married to my husband with whom I share many interests, but he lacks any style in the bedroom. He has not been able to bring me to orgasm ever in eleven years of being together.

I have bought toys to help, and he actually gets jealous of them. I did tell him I like dirty talk and all the other things I know I like.

I even bought your CD’s, and he hasn’t picked them up to listen to them yet. He actually acted hurt over my suggestions of listening to them.

I have been chatting with another male friend who sounds like he knows very well how to please a woman and tells me all the things he would do to me. I have been very tempted to be with him but know it’s not really going to help my situation at home.

Then sometimes I think having a lover to satisfy my needs on the side is just what I need. This other person is only looking to sexually gratify me, nothing else.
I’m wondering if there is something else I can do to convince my husband to take my subtle clues I need him to be more interested in satisfying me. He does oral for maybe three minutes then wham bam thank you, mam.

I’m VERY frustrated all the time!! Help me because I’m soooo tempted to take this other man up on his offer.

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Erika is on her way to leaving her husband. Poor thing.

She sounds like a good woman. She wants it to be her husband that gratifies her, but he is useless.

He is probably afraid to take control in the bedroom and is threatened by any effort she makes to address it.

How pathetic and weak.

She is going to end up fucking this friend.

Today, you have to be everything. A good man and a Bad Boy in the bedroom.

You have to take an active interest in getting good in the bedroom and understanding how that makes you a complete man.

And you may need someone to show you the ropes.

Hello, that’s why I’m here!

Let’s make sure your wife never writes me a letter like this one.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

The ongoing battle for control of your mind

Do you ever feel like you know what to do… but can’t get yourself to do it, when it comes to flirting with girls?

The Ongoing Battle For Control Of Your Mind:

“I know what to do. But I can’t get myself to do it.”

“When I get in front of a girl my mind goes blank. The only thing I can think of are boring small talk questions.”

“I know I should be fun, flirty, and sexual, but for some reason, I feel trapped in boring mode.”

Those are some of the common responses I’ve gotten the last few days from guys who replied to these emails.

So what is going on?

THE BATTLE.

There is a constant battle going on in your mind.

The battle is between your “logical brain” and your “creative brain.”

Both are trying to “grab the wheel.”

Here is the problem:

The minute you try to think of what to say, filter your personality, think of a tactic to use, remember an article you read, look for an opportunity to tease a girl or flirt…

Your LOGICAL MIND has grabbed the wheel.

Here is a COLD HARD FACT:

You can’t create a fun, flirtatious vibe when your “logical mind” has control of the wheel.

This is why the first step in a conversation should NOT be to think of how to impress a girl, use a tactic, or even flirt with her.

So then what is it?

The first thing you need to do is to shut down your “logical brain.”

Your “logical brain” is the part of you that tries to micro-manage a conversation and is constantly analyzing and worrying about everything you’re about to say.

And this makes you appear stilted, try hard, and boring.

See, the first step to becoming “ON” is discovering how to effortlessly stay out of your own head, and be completely engaged in the moment.

Here is the problem most guys run into:

You try to use your “logical brain” to get into a more confident, attractive state of mind.

But the problem with this is that you have to THINK about it to do it. And as soon as you begin thinking about your “state” you immediately take yourself out of the moment, and lose that natural confidence.

And pretty soon you’re bumbling through your mind searching for the “right words”…

I don’t think I need to tell you that the minute you start “planning” what you’re going to say…

You’ve LOST. Poof, its over. Even if you come up with perfect line, it comes out stilted and try hard.

So what do you do instead?

Pay attention, what I’m about to explain is the KEY CONCEPT to getting and staying ON and learning how to convey “raw personality.”

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“Activate your Imagination”

Did you ever wonder how some guys seem to be able to “connect the dots” in a conversation super fast?

Like they instantly have an interesting, witty, or fun reply?

Or they can “hold court” and keep the attention of a group without ever floundering?

Here is the thing: They had NO TIME to “think” about what they were going to say.

They had no time to “mold” their words to what they thinks will impress her.

Then how was it so perfect?

Because they are letting their IMAGINATION do all the work.

Bear with me.

This is an important concept to understand. And it will make more and more sense as we go on.

Imagination and creativity is ultimately what “connects the conversation dots.”

Don’t let the words creativity or imagination intimidate you.

This is NOT about being some creative poet, or imaginative science fiction writer…

Its about the ability see “connections” that you normally might have missed.

The good news is that its already there for you.

You probably notice it sometimes when you’re with people you’re comfortable with and you’re “VIBING.”

When you’re in a fun state “vibing” with your friends, you probably surprise yourself with some of the jokes, stories, and banter that flows out of your mouth.

The reason this happens is because you allow your “logical brain” to go to sleep and your imagination takes over.

This is also why some of the best conversations we have are talking about “nonsense”.

Nonsense, silliness, made up shit, imaginary scenarios…

HINT: The same type of conversation I talk about when discussing “taking her back to the playground.”

In fact, any time a sentence starts with “We should totally (insert some thing you’re never actually going to do but its fun to imagine) – you’re having one of these types of conversations.

You might never have thought of it this way. But its true.

To be playful is NOT analytical – it comes from and is responded to on an emotional level. To be playful and spontaneous you have to just let your mind vibe.

You have to be comfortable in the situation so that you feel a kind of “relaxed excitement” where you can just run through all sorts of combinations and images in your mind, feel them, and convey them.

If you have trouble expressing your personality in a fun, attractive way around girls, its most likely because you’re “logical brain” refuses to take its hands off the wheel.

And as long as he’s the one driving, you’re in for a boring, frustrating, and sex-less ride.

And it doesn’t matter how much theory you understand about attraction, it doesn’t matter how many examples of flirtatious lines you memorize…

You’re “logical mind” is gonna get in the way and fuck it up.

The first step to turning yourself ON is to make the switch from logical to creative.

A few magical things happen when you activate your imagination and creativity around girls:

1. You start responding in social situations “lightening fast”, whether its spontaneously asking the receptionist for drinks after work, having the perfect reply when woman smiles and makes eye contact with you, or quickly take things to a more fun and intimate level on a date, skipping all that boring, libido-killing small talk.

2. You become “unconstrained” in what you’ll say and begin to act more “real” expressing your unique and attractive personality in a way that draws girls toward you.

(And let me tell you, there is NOTHING that’s a bigger turn on for a chick than to catch a glimpse of the REAL you, the RAW NAKED “unfiltered” personality.)

3. You finally shut up that little self sabotaging chump voice in the back of your head.

When that voice is GONE. When that intimation is GONE. When your usually jumbled, misfiring, and inconsistent mind becomes…

UNTANGLED and CLEAR.

Your mind quiets, and everything you do just works.

Your humor hits, your stories rock, and people follow your lead. You have the strongest “magnet” of attention.

And you begin to move and communicate with a total lack of self-consciousness.

And naturally become the cool, fun, mellow, humorous guy that people (especially women) LOVE to be around.

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Badass Tip To Get Her Juices Flowing

Here’s a quick tip to getting her panties moist. To get her thinking about having you inside her, just from that initial convo.

When you’re talking to her, don’t stare at her directly in the eyes the whole time. Instead, make an effort to watch her mouth. Don’t stand their staring at it like some serial rapist. She might call the cops! Just look at her mouth subtly and naturally.

I guarantee she will start thinking about sex. She’ll start getting turned on. But that’s not the best part. The best part is she WON’T even know it!

It bypasses her built-in radar so she won’t even know you’re doing it. It just hits her subconscious. Hits here where it hurts. And where you’ll turn those sexual juices on like a light switch.

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Attract Hotter Women

How To Build Chemistry WITHOUT Saying A Single Word

Have you ever been on a date with someone where you just sensed a spark that made it super-easy to talk to her?

Everything flowed perfectly. Your conversation never ended. And it seemed like you knew her for years…

If you have experienced such chemistry, it probably turned into at least a friendship. And maybe it even turned into a hookup or a relationship.

Such instant, natural chemistry can be hard to find. Which is when some people find it, they attribute it to “destiny.”

Well you can wait around your entire life hoping for such a connection to appear. Or you can start doing things to make it appear, such as this:

Mimic her moves.

Some may say this is trying to force chemistry. But all you’re really doing is trying to show her you’re on the same wavelength. This will make her subtly believe that she’s meant to be with you…

This low-key method of seduction is called “mirroring.” It’s where you copy her moves and “flow”…

For instance, picking up your drink when she picks up hers. Leaning the way she leans. Smiling when she smiles. Laughing when she laughs. Speaking in the same tone and volume. And so on….

Don’t make it obvious that you’re mirroring her. Do it as naturally as possible so you don’t seem like you’re trying too hard…

As you continue to mirror her, she should pick up on your signals. And if things go well, you should be taking her home after you pick up the check.

Mirroring is one great way to build chemistry. But as good as your nonverbal signaling is, you’ll still have to speak if you hope to hit a home run.

What should you say to seduce her subtly?

That’s a question many men have no idea how to answer.

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5 Ways To Approach Women With Confidence

Here are 5 ways to approach a woman with confidence, in specific situations you see all the time:

1) At a bar or party

What to say first: I can tell just by looking at you that you’re gonna be trouble…

What to say next: Seriously though, you’re too cute. How dare you! You’re ruining my guy’s night out.

Mistakes to avoid: Not coming in with enough energy, not speaking loud enough to be heard, taking rejection personally.

2) At a coffee shop

What to say first: Ok listen, I’m sitting here trying to get my work done and you keep distracting me… would you please stop being so cute.

What to say next: How’s that book by the way, any good?

Mistakes to avoid: acting too stiff and boring, being too quiet because you’re worried about other people listening.

3. At the gym

What to say first: Hey, I see you here almost every day, I don’t think we’ve met yet, I’m ___.

What to say next: By the way, you look great today… have you been, like… working out or something? 😉

Mistakes to avoid: interrupting her workout, taking up too much time so she cuts you off to get back to her workout, never making a move to get her number and text her later.

4. At the grocery store

What to say first: Hey, do you know how to cook this?

What to say next: Wow you have a lot of great stuff in your cart, all I have is ramen and hot sauce… you gonna invite me over for dinner or what? Haha, I’m ___ by the way.

Mistakes to avoid: Running out of things to say, not asking for her number, not talking long enough for her to feel comfortable.

5) When she’s looking at you…

What to say first: So… I noticed you checking me out and I was worried that if I didn’t come over here, you might follow me home later. Hi, I’m ___.

What to say next: So what do you do for fun in this crazy city? When you’re not daydreaming about me of course…

Mistakes to avoid: feeling shitty and giving up if you get a negative reaction… forgetting to feel awesome that you had the balls to approach when no other guy would have.

Nervous about approaching her?

You just gotta grab yourself by the balls and say “fvck it,” man. Embrace the fear and do it anyways.

And don’t worry… “approach anxiety” isn’t even your fault.

It’s a “fight or flight” response that’s been programmed into your body for thousands of years.

But you’re not gonna let it control you, of course. You and I both know… fear is no big deal. You’re a freakin BADASS.

You laugh at fear. You embrace it. And then you go for it anyways.

And while every other guy ends up going home alone, torturing himself with a million “what ifs?”…

You remember your training and you walk up to that girl like a boss.

Knowing in your bones that she’s been waiting for a guy like you all night.

Just remember – you will always regret the shots you DON’T take… but never the ones you do.

Make it happen, partner.

What Single Women Hate Most About Single Guys

Romantic relationships are very different from friend relationships. While most men would sleep with most of their female friends if the woman came on to them, most women would NOT sleep with most men that they consider “just friends.”

The thing that tells a woman whether the guy she’s with is friend material or lover material is how she feels. It’s a combination of emotional feelings and physical feelings.

It is NOT logic.

If there’s one thing that triggers an attractive single woman’s wuss-dar, it’s a man’s posture, gestures, eye contact, voice tone, etc. It all happens in an INSTANT.

Women read this stuff and interpret it as instantly and accurately as you read and interpret the cover of Playboy. NO ANALYSIS NECESSARY.

I’d say that probably 90% of all men alive today instantly disqualify themselves with women because of this problem. Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. telegraph the message that they’re a wuss. They do a thousand weird little things to let a woman know that they’re uncomfortable and not being themselves.

And you guessed it… Single women hate it!

That’s why you MUST learn how to instantly communicate to a woman that you are Not a wuss. That you are a confident, authentic and interesting man. That you are a “catch” and not at all like the other men out there who are trying to give her all their power, and seek her approval, and “win” her over.

She might use logic to rationalize her decision… or she might use logic to sound like she has a good reason for either being with or not being with a particular guy.

A Woman’s “Logic” has NOTHING To Do With ATTRACTION
Let me say this another way….

A woman feels something emotionally and/or physically, then she uses those feelings as the basis for her decisions and actions with a particular guy. If she feels that “Ewwww Yuck!” feeling, then her logical conclusion will NEVER be that she wants to date the guy in question.

If you want to make sure that you NEVER give a woman that “Ewwww Yuck!” feeling again, there are a few simple changes you can make in how you think and behave to always come across as a “real man” that will take care of it.

I go in-depth about that right here. If you’re interested. I suggest you have a look:

On Being A Man

But for now, here’s all you need to know: if a woman feels that “It’s Gettin’ Hot In Here” feeling, then her logical conclusion will be that this guy is interesting and attractive, and a good choice to date, and she’ll take action on those thoughts.

How do most guys behave around a woman that they’re romantically interested in?
What do they then do to get that woman to be with them?
Take a few minutes to think about this. Make a list if you have paper and pen handy.

Now take a look at your list. I’ll bet that almost every single thing on your list was something external. In other words, your list probably contains things like “Take her to dinner” and “Give her compliments” and “Buy her flowers” and “Call her often.”

These are all things that demonstrate that he’s interested. They are not the things that trigger those emotional and physical feelings inside of a woman that tell her that THIS IS THE GUY.

In other words, men try to use props to let a woman know he’s interested… hoping that when the woman sees these displays she’ll be interested in him. But almost none of the things men do to court women make women feel anything even remotely similar to Attraction and Desire.

Of course, you know this. You’ve probably done this stuff about a bazillion times. I have, too. I know what it’s like to try over and over to let a particular woman know that I’m interested… only to have her not respond in a romantic way.

Act This Way, And You’re Making 2 HUGE Mistakes At Once!
First of all, it’s just the plain-old wrong way to go. Telling or showing a woman that you like her has no effect on how she feels about you. In the moment it sure seems to make sense… “If I show her how I feel, she’ll return the feelings.”

Duh. Like I said, it seems like the right thing to do in the moment (when your inner little girl has a big fat crush). But it’s not… it will have no effect on her feelings for you.

And second, it communicates clearly that YOU DON’T GET IT. It tips a woman off INSTANTLY that you’re not hip to what’s going… and it kills your chances with her.

Look, if you’ve been dating a woman exclusively for six months, and her birthday comes… it’s OK to buy her a gift and tell her that you like spending time with her.

That’s because YOU’RE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP!

But if you’ve known a woman for six DAYS and you try this kind of thing, you’re going to shoot yourself in the foot because….

Women Are Experts At Recognizing Men Who “Don’t Get It”
If YOU don’t get it – plus you’re trying to compensate for that fact with gifts and compliments – then you’re really screwed (or not screwed, as the case may be).

So remember what I’m about to tell you. Burn it into your mind. Write it on a sticky-note and put it on your computer monitor…

Single, attractive women watch men try to win them over all day long.

They know when a guy doesn’t “get it,” and they’re annoyed when a guy who doesn’t get it just keeps trying and trying. Single, attractive women watch guys do this stuff 24/7. They shake their pretty heads and say “He doesn’t get it… He doesn’t get it… He doesn’t get it” over and over.

The point is, if you don’t get it either, then nothing you do is going to work for you. The problem is bigger than you can imagine, and you’re going to need to take a totally different road to get where you’re going.

But okay, time to get specific. Let’s return to where we started…

What Attractive Women Hate Most About Single Guys
There are a few particular things that really annoy single, attractive women.

A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things (or even just one of these things), it can destroy your chances of success with that particular woman.

Here are a few of the big things that single women REALLY hate:

#1- Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval
If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and destroys a guy’s chances, it would be this. It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it’s everywhere.

Men, in effect, say “Hi, I want your approval and attention. I’m willing to let YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything to please YOU… if you’ll give me your attention and approval.”

But the problem is that women don’t want you to give up your status and “manliness.” Women aren’t attracted to men who act weak and tentative. Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he’ll give away his power in return for approval. THEY HATE IT!

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In the meantime, on to the second thing women hate most about single guys:

#2- Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure
When one person clings to another person psychologically, the person who is being clinged to resents and REJECTS the needy, clingy emotional parasite…This is WUSS behavior at its worst.

If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says “Hey, I have to go,” he might say “Aw, well… um… OK. Um, will you call me when you get home?”

Or let’s say a guy and a girl are out on their first date, and they’re walking around in a large department store. Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute. If she wanders away, he’ll come find her immediately.

He’ll stay physically close to her, as if he’s afraid she’ll leave without him.

And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually asks a woman to tell him that he’s nice, fun, interesting, etc.

Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. It makes them want to RUN AWAY.

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#3- Not Leading (Or Even Worse… Trying To Get HER To Lead)
Guess what… all women have WUSS-DAR. And one of the things that triggers a woman’s wuss-dar is a man who “follows.”

The real problem is that most women won’t try to lead naturally. So you’ve got a situation where a man is trying to follow a woman who isn’t leading. He’s looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what to do… but he isn’t getting them.

So what does he do? He asks for them! He says “So, I was thinking of maybe taking you to Olive Garden for dinner… how does that sound?”

Everything about the way he asks says to the woman “I’m trying to figure out what you want me to do… please help me know how you want me to act, where you want me to take you, and what you want me to say.”

This is ATTRACTION DEATH! Men who don’t lead, and even worse, try to get a woman to lead, annoy the living daylights out of single women. They HATE IT.

#4- Using Insecure, Approval-Seeking Voice Tone And Body Language
There’s a term that single, attractive, in-demand women use to describe men who use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures, comments, and mannerisms…

The term is “NICE.” As in, “He’s nice… but… there’s no chemistry.”

This is one of those areas that’s not easy to talk about. Since so many guys do this stuff, it’s almost impossible to explain. It’s like trying to tell a fish that they’re not going to get anywhere in life if they stay wet. The fish doesn’t even KNOW it’s wet in the first place.

But let me try. This is important.

Go spend a day observing couples. Go places where couples that have just met spend time together. Bars, clubs, coffee shops, whatever. Now watch the guys.

Watch how they lean towards the women. Watch how they raise their eyebrows in exaggerated response to women’s comments. Watch how they slump over, let their shoulders fall forward, and smile fake-ly at whatever the women say.

If you’re close enough, listen to how men ask questions and make comments with a voice tone that says “I’m insecure and I’m trying to be extra nice to compensate for it.”

You’ll see it EVERYWHERE. In fact, you’ll see it so much that you’ll probably write me back to tell me that I’m the one who’s crazy, and that since it happens so much, it must be “the right way.”

Well, it’s not. If there’s one thing that triggers an attractive single woman’s wuss-dar, it’s a man’s posture, gestures, eye contact, voice tone, etc. It all happens in an INSTANT.

Women read this stuff and interpret it as instantly and accurately as you read and interpret the cover of Playboy. NO ANALYSIS NECESSARY.

I’d say that probably 90% of all men alive today instantly disqualify themselves with women because of this problem. Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. telegraph the message that they’re a wuss. They do a thousand weird little things to let a woman know that they’re uncomfortable and not being themselves.

And you guessed it… Single women hate it!

That’s why you MUST learn how to instantly communicate to a woman that you are Not a wuss. That you are a confident, authentic and interesting man. That you are a “catch” and not at all like the other men out there who are trying to give her all their power, and seek her approval, and “win” her over.

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Onward to…

#5- Not Understanding That She’s A Woman And You’re A Man
I’m about to get philosophical on your butt, so be cool…

When it comes down to it, most men don’t understand women. But the REAL kicker is that most men don’t understand MEN either in that they don’t know what it’s like to get in touch with their male nature.

Women are coy. They like to play hard to get. They like to enjoy the chase. They love anticipation. They love to “let a guy catch them”…

Men are competitive. Men are dominant. Men like to play rough games, win things, and rule their territory.

Well guess what? Combine these two issues, and you get a guy who behaves in ways that do not trigger ATTRACTION in women.

Most men don’t behave like men when they’re in the presence of a woman that they like. And since most men don’t understand female human nature, they don’t demonstrate that they “get it” when they’re with women that they like.

Women like men. Men like women. There are POWERFUL causes at play here. When you’re around a woman you like, don’t act like a girly-man. It’s not attractive… not one bit.

And single women HATE IT!

#6- Not Being Interesting To Be Around
Underneath most behavior that I see most guys acting out is a core belief that goes like this:

“I don’t believe that an attractive woman would want to be around me just because she enjoys my presence… so I make up for it by saying and doing certain things that I hope she’ll enjoy… and if she enjoys those other things enough, then maybe she’ll want to spend more time with me.”

Heavy, man.

Well guess what? Most attractive single women know that if a guy isn’t interesting to be around, she’s eventually going to go CRAZY being around him. In other words, no amount of material gifts, compliments, dinners, and other displays will ever compensate for a lack of BEING INTERESTING.

Here’s a profound thought: I and several other guys I know have many women who call us often… just because they enjoy being around us.These women would be happy just to be in the same room with us… and enjoy our company. And yes, these women CALL US. Often.

Material gifts, food, flowers, and other displays have ZERO lasting value to a woman when it comes to how she FEELS about you.

An attractive single woman wants a guy who lights her up. She wants to feel good. She wants mystery… she wants to laugh… she wants a challenge… she wants sexual tension. If you’re using compliments, gifts, food, and other displays to get a woman’s attention… you need to ask yourself a tough question: Is it because you don’t believe that a woman would want to be around you just to be around you?

Because if you don’t know how to be interesting to a woman, then no amount of compensation is going to fix the problem. If you’re boring, predictable, and uninteresting, then you’re never going to have women calling YOU to hang out.

Oh, and women HATE IT.

#7- Not Understanding Attraction
This is a BIGGIE. You hear me talking about it all the time, right?

Maybe now that you’ve read this newsletter you’ll have a better context to understand what I’m about to tell you… If you “get it” with women, it’s super interesting and attractive to them. Women can INSTANTLY FEEL IT when they’re with a guy who “gets it.”

Women know very quickly if they’re talking to a guy who understands himself and women… and who enjoys creating and building sexual tension. Women know if a guy speaks the secret language of “attraction.”

If he doesn’t, then she stops all communication on that level. If he does, then it continues.

Attraction Isn’t A Choice
Attraction is an emotional and physical response…and you can’t “convince” a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works… and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The problem with attraction, and with success with women in general is that the things you need to do to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS. They’re counter intuitive, in many cases. In other words, they’re the OPPOSITE of what you’d THINK would make sense.

You have to do things like create tension… stop doing something that she likes… give her time to miss you… etc. And if you don’t understand attraction, a woman is going to KNOW IT.

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And guess what? Single women HATE IT when a man doesn’t understand attraction and how to communicate on this “other level.”

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I’ll talk to you again soon.