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Let’s get into today’s reader mailbag…

Q.I’m finally starting to get it. It took a long time (lots of e-mails read, e-book read, listened, and seminar attended), but one night it just clicked, and I’m now starting to get some e-mail/phone numbers. And I’m getting the tea dates going.

I had one amazing realization today – whenever I don’t get an initial meeting after getting the e-mail, I don’t do what i used to which is get depressed, find fault in myself, and figure I’ll never get anybody.

Now, since I’m working on this next step of getting the initial meeting, I just see it as a recipe. Maybe with girl A I was too C and not enough F. Maybe with girl B I’m not making her feel comfortable enough of meeting at my place.

I realized that with practice I’ll get the recipe right and be able to turn any e-mail into an initial date. That new mindset has taken a long time to get to and it’s mostly due to your info. Thanks!

Question: Tonight’s first date went really well! I was almost too comfortable and was totally calm and cool. Poked fun at her, never answered any questions directly, and I didn’t sit around worrying about whether or not she liked me. I could almost tangibly feel the attraction being amplified!

But I found out during the date that she’s a single mom. Now, I, personally, don’t like to date single moms for various reasons – not even for a one-night stand. (A lot of guys disagree and that’s cool – this is my own thing).

Could you suggest a way to ask this prior to the first date? Perhaps it’s my own limiting belief, but it seems that by asking this, I’m implying that I’m looking at her as possible long-term material.

Thanks a lot and everybody reading this.

R.

A. Well, thanks for the shameless advertising plug, R. I really appreciate it. OK, you’ve asked a very interesting question. It’s interesting not because of the content of the actual question… but more because of what it says about you and what you’re thinking.

When you say, “Can you tell me how to ask a woman if she has kids before a first date?” it implies that you think that there’s something wrong with just coming out and asking it.

It’s like you’re saying, “Well, I know that I can’t just ask her if she has kids… so can you tell me some cool trick to get her to spill it without me having to ask?”. Well guess what? THIS IS A PROBLEM. And here’s why:

You Should NEVER Use “Tricks” To Learn More About A Woman
If you want to know something about a woman… including whether or not she has kids… then you need to come right out at CONFIDENTLY ASK.

Say “Hey, do you have any kids?”. If she says, “Yes”, then say, “Great. I’m really looking for a woman who doesn’t have any kids, but we can be friends.”

Let’s use a different example. Let’s say you’ve placed a personal ad online. Let’s say that a cute woman replies. Let’s say that she sends you a picture… but it only shows her face… and you’re only interested in women who are slim.

Now, you probably would write to me and ask me to give you some slick way to get her to share how much she weighs with you without having to ask. WRONG IDEA. Just email her and say, “Hey, how tall are you and how much do you weigh? I really prefer women who are slim. Let me know…” That’s it.

Think about it. If she is slim, she’ll tell you, and probably be glad that you were up front with her and direct. If she isn’t slim, she’ll be glad you told her now and didn’t waste her time. (By the way… it’s not ok to say, “Hey, I really hate fat chicks… so tell me now, because if you’re fat I’m going to bail…”. That’s not cool.)

I think that your problem is probably rooted in insecurity, and caring too much what other people think of you.

If you act like an adult and expect others to act like adults, you’ll do well with women. If you pussy-foot around the issue (a perfect term for you and this) you’ll wind up trying to do things that waste every-one’s time. If you’re up front, direct, and not caring what other people think of you, then you’re going to make women respond more powerfully. Guaranteed.

Oh, and great job getting your act together with women. You’re doing very well, keep it up.

And feel free to promote my materials anytime you want in the future.

Q.***Comment From A Woman***

I’ve been reading your email newsletters…not because I’m a male needing advice, but because I am a female who likes to get insight into what men are thinking! I’ll have to say that what you are telling these guys is right on target.

I have a girlfriend who is a perfect 10, but she has the worst luck with men. Know why? They are too nice to her! I was sitting out by the pool with her this past weekend, and listening to her talk about the latest guy she’s dating.

He’s cute, attentive, sweet, thoughtful, generous, funny, and a tiger in bed!! But, she told me that he isn’t the one. I asked her why, and this is exactly what she said, “He’s too agreeable”.

“Everything I say is ok with him…anything I want to do, go, or think is OK with him. I’m getting bored. He doesn’t have enough personality for me. He’s always smiling, and my thirteen year old daughter even says he’s a wuss for being so nice all the time. I want a man who’s a challenge.”

Now, this woman sees this other guy from time to time, and she’d drop what she’s doing and drive 6 hours just to spend one night with him! But that guy doesn’t call regularly and he treats her poorly, but she’d give her first born child to have him!

No, it doesn’t make sense, but that is the way a lot of Number 10 women are. And if a guy really wants a 10, your techniques would work like a charm. Just warn these guys that 10’s are very difficult women to deal with, and they are used to having every guy’s attention, so they need to keep the game up to keep her from straying.

I wish guys would see that the 10’s, although they are pretty to look at, aren’t always worth the effort. My friends who are 5’s would treat men better, if they could get their attention.

Me? I’m about a 7-8 but I use your techniques on men, and they work quite well. A year ago, I was dating 4-5 men at time. The one guy that I cared the least about and brushed off time and again, is the one I’m dating all the time now!

He just hung in there no matter how many dates I cancelled or even if I told him I had another date! I even told him I was dating lots of other men!

But, he just hung in there, and I got tired of the others, and now I only date him, and we’re happy! Oh, I do still give him a challenge! I am not always available, and I don’t call him often, nor email him all the time, and when he goes out of town on work, I don’t get all jealous and worry.

I don’t have to worry. He can’t wait to get back to me! He cooks for me and treats me like a Queen.

So…tell those guys this little secret about women. The 10’s love it when you are a challenge, and they may end up with a 10, but remember that those women can be the most difficult. Give the lower numbers a chance sometimes, and they will find a devoted mate!

Later…

K in SC

A. Amen, sister. Preach it.

You gotta love honest women. And you’ve laid it out for everyone to see. I wish all men had an older sister like you who could tell them how it is from an early age…

But, alas, we do not.

I’m going to go read your email again, because it’s gold.

Send a picture next time. I promise that I’ll never call you all the time, and I’ll never tolerate you canceling anything on me. (Of course, then you’d fall in love with me, and I’d have to break your heart.)

What a life.

Q.I must say kudos to you for creating a new man out of me. Let me explain myself. I ordered your ebook a while ago and have been getting your newsletter for the better part of a year. However, only recently, I decided enough is enough.

I started putting what I read into action to see what happens. Of course, it really helps that I’m a well-built muscular tall, dark and handsome man (Lol). Ain’t that what the ladies are looking for? To clarify in terms of specs, I’m 5’11”, of South Indian origin, and I’ve been a recreational bodybuilder for going on 14 years now.

The nightclub I like to frequent to dance in has a lot of gorgeous women, several easily 9’s and 10’s. Well, the other night, I approached a girl who was without a doubt at least a 10. She was acting very coy and detached to anybody but the crowd of guys and girls she was with.

Since she was wearing a cabbie-style hat, I came up to her and said, “Hey, I like your hat.” She smiled and said, “Thanks” but still was kind of stuck up. So, then, I said, “Let me guess, you’re a taxi-driver.” She looked at me with a “there’s NO way you just said that to me” shocked expression on her face but then, she instantly warmed up to me and replied with a big smile on her face, “No, I’ll bet you are though.”

Well, Dave, I’m a doctor and I’m sure it helped for her to hear that but the rest of the night, she was rubbing up against me and holding me tight, even grinding with me on the dance floor. What’s even more surprising is that her boyfriend was part of the crowd and since I introduced myself to the rest of the group, he was cool with me hanging with them.

I’m willing to bet that if he had not been there, she would have tried to kiss me and probably even make out with me.Thank you.

Now I apologize for such a long account but I did want to demonstrate the scenario carefully if anyone can benefit from it. My question to you is quite simply this:

Why is it that some women seem totally enamored in person and act like they want to go out but then never return your phone calls or initiate calls themselves? I mean, I can tell that they are not faking their interest in me and so, what happens once they leave from my presence?

T.M. Michigan

A. What’s that, T.M.? You mean to tell me that even tall, dark, and handsome body-builder guys need help, too? LOL…

It’s funny, because most guys don’t realize that even good-looking guys have all the same challenges with women… I mean, it certainly doesn’t HURT to be a handsome guy, but women do all the same things, no matter what a guy looks like.

Back to your question. Here’s the whole deal, man:

SHOCKER: Many Attractive Women Have Extremely Low Self-Esteem
Therefore, here’s what you need to know: Many (if not most) of these really attractive women are really just out to get attention. In other words, they’re not looking to meet a good guy… they’re not looking to find someone who will treat them well… they’re not looking for love.

They’re looking to fill an empty part of their self-image, and attention makes them feel good. Some women actually enjoy getting attention from guys, then acting like they don’t like it.

Hey, I never said women made sense…

Have you ever known a woman who wears low-cut blouses, then complains because guys only look at her breasts while talking to her? Duh. If a woman complains about something like this to me, I’ll say something like, “You know, now that you mention it… are those real?”

It’s crazy, but here are a few things to remember…

A woman will behave DIFFERENTLY according to her mood. If she’s happy when she’s with you, then she might act like she’s enjoying herself. If you call the next day and she’s depressed because she still has no self-esteem, then she’s probably not going to call you.

ATTRACTION is the key. You must realize that if you dial up the attraction by creating Sexual Tension, etc. then you’ll have a much stronger chance of seeing her again.
DON’T CHASE. When you talk to her again, make sure you don’t communicate that you need anything… especially attention or approval.
Lose the need to have every woman like you. One big weakness that most men have is a woman who won’t call back. But remember, women are the same way. Read the email at the beginning of this newsletter from the attractive woman for details.
You always have options. When you know how to meet women anytime you want, then it doesn’t matter what happens in a particular situation. And if it doesn’t matter, women can sense it. This is a very attractive quality.

Q.Here are some of my favorite lines I use:

If I happen to get a phone call while I’m around a girl I’ve been talking to, Ill bring her up in the conversation w/ whoever called me, making some teasing comment about her loud enough for her to hear.

She’ll usually give me a face, or flip me off…so then I say to my friend on the phone, “yea, she likes me.” So simple, yet they eat it up! I’ll tell girls who are walking behind me to stop following me because I’m getting that stalker vibe from them…and if they want to look at my ass that bad, they can take a snapshot of it for $4.99…as long as it’s for their personal enjoyment and not to show off to their friends.

I also like to put a price on my time or presence. For instance, I’ll be talking to a girl for a little bit, then I’ll look down at my watch and say, “Okay, I talked to you for two minutes, and I let you shake my hand…that’ll be twenty dollars, tip not included”.

Then I’ll say that I really have to get going, and demand their phone number so I can “collect my money on a more convenient date.” I love this way of communication…it makes girls attracted to you, and it’s so much more fun than the normal boring stuff.

Now, a quick question. First off, I loved your last Dating Tip…about Sexual Tension. One of your best emails.

But I have a question about eye contact…do you ever have to watch for when it’s appropriate? An example would be last week when I was in a club. I was standing, and I turned around to face a cute girl who I immediately locked eyes with. She wasn’t going anywhere, she was just standing.

But we were only about a foot away from each other looking directly into each others eyes. I wasn’t even going to try to talk to her, because it was too noisy.

But I didn’t want to just stand there, a foot away from her face, just staring, ’cause I figured I would seem like a weirdo…so I just walked past her. What would you say to do in situations like this?

Are there times when your rule about eye contact (not looking away until she does) isn’t appropriate? Is proximity to the girl your eye-locked with an issue?

Thanx again

A. Well, another great question… And more shameless advertising for my Advanced Series. What a great combination.

But I digress… Yes, let’s talk about eye contact… what to do after you’ve made it… and a larger principle that’s at stake here. Here’s the deal:

There Are 5 Signals That INSTANTLY Tell A Woman You’re A “Wuss”
These are dead giveaways to a woman that tell her you’re not worth her time.They are instant ATTRACTION KILLERS that leave you dead in the water every time, including:

Inability to maintain eye contact
Slumped, submissive posture
Fidgeting nervously
Giving away power
Looking for attention and approval from others
Of course, there are quite a few more examples of other little things that women look for… to make quick decisions about what kind of man you are… and instantly know whether or not you are worthy of a second thought.

Now, as you’ve heard me say a million times, these decisions all happen on a subconscious level. Women don’t look at a man, then say to a friend, “Well, he maintained eye contact when I first looked at him, then he held his head up high in a dominant posture… so I’m going to give him a chance”.

It’s an instant feeling that women get. They use these little body language cues to instantly size you up, then respond instantly.

Now, you’re asking about a particular facet of eye contact… specifically, when you’re standing one foot away from her and it happens.

Your question leads me to believe that you think things must be different if you’re close to a woman… as if the rules should change if she’s closer than 4.35234 feet. If anything, it takes more composure and inner strength to look a woman in the eyes if she’s standing a foot away.

In this case it’s even more important to not look away, and try saying, “I just couldn’t help noticing you… {pause}… staring at me…” That’s funny. Or say, “Do you always maintain such strong eye contact? Or only with guys like me that you can’t help it with?”

The Bottom Line: Doing ANYTHING Is Better Than Doing NOTHING
I mean, you don’t even have to expend the energy to walk over and start a conversation. Even “Hi” is better than walking away.

Plus: once you get over your remaining fear of the unknown, and you realize that you’re in control of your life and your results, you’ll begin to realize that situations like these are great opportunities… which reminds me of something.

I honestly believe that fear of the unknown is one of the biggest obstacles that guys face with women. It may sound silly, but most guys who are afraid to approach women really don’t know exactly WHAT they’re afraid of.

All they know is that they have an instant fear come up whenever they think of walking up to a woman they don’t know and talking to her.

Of course, a fear of the unknown sounds like an easy thing to fix. I mean, just realize that you don’t even know what you’re afraid of, and it should go away, right?

Sounds good, but it’s wrong. The fact is that this is a complex problem. I mean, I’ve met guys who have gone to therapy for years to get over fears… and it didn’t work.

Now, I’m not a therapist or psychologist… but I do know one thing…

I Had This Very Same Fear… So I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE
But the really weird part is that the thing that helped me get over it wasn’t anything that I expected. What helped me get past it, and helped me to start approaching women and getting emails and numbers from women I didn’t know, was simply this:

Understanding what was going on… and then knowing exactly what to do in each situation.

The problem that I had in the past was that I JUST DIDN’T GET IT with women. I didn’t understand what made them feel attraction for one guy while feeling nothing or even like running away from another guy.

Now that I do get it, I have to say that it’s pretty damn interesting. But it’s not at all what I would have expected. In fact, it took me a couple of years of trying to figure it out to actually begin to really understand how and why women feel that instant and magical ATTRACTION response for some guys… while most guys go their whole lives without women even noticing them.

Once I Learned About ATTRACTION, Everything Changed For Me
In this Mailbag, quite a few guys wrote in who have had the same experience this week with my Advanced Series. They all watched it, learned about CREATING ATTRACTION, then had a light bulb come on in their heads.

Before they spent the 12+ hours going through the program they didn’t get it. After they went through the program they DID get it.

A lot of guys write in to say that “It just clicked all of a sudden” or “I had a huge Ah-Ha when I went through the program.” You’ll also notice that most of the guys who make these comments have read this newsletter for quite awhile as well.

What I’m trying to say is that my Advanced Series will totally change the way you see things… and therefore totally change your results with women.

It’s taken me literally years to figure all of this stuff out, and I can honestly say that it’s nothing like the other books and programs that are available.

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You can barely switch on the TV these days or read the news without hearing another story about some guy accused of sexual harassment.

It’s gotten to the point where a lot of men are afraid to even look at a woman now for fear of being labeled a creep.

And it’s easy to fall into this trap…

To think you can’t flirt with and seduce women anymore.

That you’ll be looked at as some kind of sexual predator.

But here’s the truth that isn’t really being talked about:

Women are only calling out men who they didn’t feel any kind of sexual attraction to…

Guys like Harvey Weinstein and other power players who used their influence to bargain for sex.

And that’s the lesson here.

If a woman sleeps with you because she feels obligated… or only because she’s getting something from you…

She’ll see you as a creep or loser and feel disgusted by you.

BUT when you know how to trigger sexual arousal so deep she feels it in her bones…

Not only will she not mind when you have your way with her…

She’ll usually throw herself at you so hard it’ll look like she’s the one molesting you.

And with the current climate of #metoo and sexual harassment, you NEED to know this.

Because if you don’t, you never know when some girl will publicly call you out as a pervert and ruin your reputation.

The changing roles of men and women over the last 50 years has left men confused and bewildered.

They have become afraid of their own masculinity and seek much of their validation from their intimate relationships with women.

This is a recipe for disaster.

The divorce rate is skyrocketing while the marriage rate plummets.

Women ask: where have all of the good men gone?

And now we have a new generation on “Incels” popping up.

These guys have given up on relationships with women, and they’re disenfranchised and dangerous.

Not good.

All of this is an aspect of the Nice Guy phenomenon

Most of men who join our group admit to suffering from some degree of Nice-Guy-itis.

And the ones that don’t admit to it are lying.

That’s why I had to create this group – to cure Nice Guy-itis.

You have a lot of raw male potential lurking under your veneer of learned Nice Guy behaviors.

I see it as my job to bring it out of you.

A lot of you guys are good men, who through social programming, have learned to act the part of the “Nice Guy.”

But you have a lot more depth and drive than you realize.

You have the potential to be Great Lovers, Boyfriends and Husbands just like All Men Are Meant To Be By Mother Nature!

In this group we will map a pathway to a more authentic you and then onward to the man you wish to be, along with all of the pleasures that accompany being that kind of man.

It is a boot camp that puts you in touch with REALITY. And when that happens, you’ll find that you are more powerful than you ever thought.

And never again worry about doing anything that makes girls think you’re creepy!

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You might feel bad wanting to do something that you know doesn’t serve you well… like pursuing the ladies… instead of allowing them to pursue you. 🙂

In Rick Warren’s book, “The Purpose Driven Life,” there is this outline
about temptation.

If you’re feeling bad about being tempted to do something you’re not supposed to do like… reach out to her, get back into that bad relationship or simply pursue again, you are not alone.

The road to an extraordinary life is filled with roadblocks.

Many of you are afraid and ashamed by being tempted, feeling guilty that you aren’t BEYOND temptation.

Basically, you think that feeling tempted is a bad thing, that it shows weakness.

Guess what?

It doesn’t.

It’s actually an opportunity for you to grow.

Here’s what I mean:

Every time you choose to NOT do something, you are growing in character.

In fact, you will grow the MOST when you are tempted.

Character development always involves a choice, and temptation provides
that opportunity.

Think about it this way…

It takes no character to NOT pursue chicks who are pursuing YOU.

You can’t claim to be strong with chicks if you’ve never been tempted to be weak with them.

Integrity is built by defeating the temptation.

Every time you defeat it, you become more powerful.

Temptation always follows the same path:

– Want

“I need it now! It’ll be great and make me feel better.”

– Doubt

“Is it really wrong? Was it really meant for
another time, another type of guy or some other particular situation? Isn’t it good to be happy?”

– Deception

“I can get away with it. No one will ever know. It’ll solve my problem. Besides, everyone else is doing it. It’s only a little reaching out.” But a little reaching out is like being a little pregnant…

– Disobedience

What began as an idea morphs into behavior. You give in to whatever got your attention. You believe the lies your ego tells you and fall into the trap.

How do you defeat it?

– Refuse to be intimidated

Temptation is a sign that your ego is fighting for survival. You can’t keep your ego from suggesting thoughts, but you can choose not to dwell or act on them. Your ego will do anything to save itself.

– Recognize your pattern of temptation

There are going to be certain situations where you’re more vulnerable than others. It may be when you’re tired, lonely, bored, depressed or under stress.
It may be when you’ve been hurt or angry or worried, or even after a big success. Identify your particular pattern of temptation and prepare for these situations.

– Request help

You need support in times of temptation, so reach out to friends or someone
like me.

– Refocus your attention

Temptation begins by capturing your attention. What gets your attention arouses your emotions. Then your emotions activate your behavior, and you act on what you felt.

Since it always begins with a thought, the quickest way to neutralize its allure is to turn your attention to something else.

Don’t fight the thought, just change the channel of your mind and get interested in another idea.

– Reveal your struggle to others

Join a support group or form your own.

– Believe… and resist your ego

Accept what I tell you as the truth.

If you are a believer, your ego can’t force you to do anything.

It can only suggest.

Don’t argue with it.

Don’t say, “I’m not going to reach out.”

Instead say, “I’m on the right path.”

You can’t bluff your ego with logic or opinion either, but you CAN use the one weapon that it fears most…

…THE TRUTH!

You already have enough power within you to defeat any temptation that comes your way.

Temptation doesn’t exist outside of you.

The truth is that it always begins within you.

The battle is won or lost in your mind first.

This was deep.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download my online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

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This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

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Did you know one of the most searched-for categories of porn is MILFs?

It’s true.

Tons of young men have a fantasy of being with an older woman.

But there’s just as many girls (if not more) who want to experience what it’s like to be with an older man.

Problem is, most older guys don’t have a clue how to make this go down – leaving it an unfulfilled fantasy for most young women.

One of the biggest mistakes I see older guys make… is putting a younger woman on a pedestal.

They’re so enamored with her youth and beauty, they treat her like her value is through the roof.

But this is a huge turn-off for young women.

Part of the appeal of an older man is that he’s experienced, accomplished and independent.

So if he bends over backwards trying to please some girl half his age who he barely knows… he communicates that he’s none of these things.

It’s like popping a pin in the balloon of any sexual attraction she may have felt.

What you want to do instead is feed into her fantasy that you’re more powerful and important than she is…

Because deep down, she wants to feel like she was lucky that you chose her.

To do that, you can’t act like every other horny old dog that’s impressed by her sweet, sweet body.

No, you need to be different.

You need to frame yourself as the prize who she needs to win over.

Learn a new way to think about women, and combine it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

One simple way to do this is by implying she’s too young for you.

By making it seem like she’s too immature or inexperienced for your standards, it completely flips the script.

She’s used to guys trying to prove why they are good enough for her, thus giving her all the power.

But when you disqualify her for being too young, her ego will kick in and she’ll start trying to prove herself to you.

And once she begins chasing you like this, she’ll convince herself it must be because she likes you.

The more she convinces herself that she likes you, the more she’ll actually want you.

This is how you separate yourself from the herd and become her very first older man experience.

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In the nightlife scene, there’s typically 5 “types” of guys.

When women see you for the first time, they instantly categorize you and decide which type you are.

And once you get “typed”, that’s it – she’s not gonna change her mind about you, it’s locked in.

Here are the types:

– The “nice guy” she will talk to for a few minutes and then move on

– The “warm up guy” – her first conversation of the night – good for free drinks and compliments to warm her up for the next guy

– The douchebag type of guy she will reject (unless she gets super drunk, then she might sleep with him and regret it)

– The creepy type of guy she stays far, far away from

– The “prize” type of guy that she will approach (even if she’s nervous or she thinks girls are not supposed to approach guys first)

Obviously, you want to be the “prize” type of guy, and this video will show you how:

Click here to learn more…

FYI – it’s NOT about being super smooth, confident or “alpha”… it’s actually the complete opposite.

Enjoy

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I’ve got a bunch of YOUR emails waiting for me today. Let’s get right to MY brilliant answers…

Q. ***Success Story***

I just had to tell you how great your stuff is.

I got your first email (ten things most guys do) and before I finished reading the list, I went to the site and ordered the book. I figured what can I lose, I don’t have success now and I spent more then $40 on my last date and they offer a 100% money back deal.

I read it as soon as I downloaded it then read it again the next day, of course went and bought comedy writing secrets the 3rd day and read that the same afternoon.

I have to tell you I was clueless before I read your book. I would naturally get a few women attracted to me when I wasn’t trying because I didn’t have interest in them and would bust on them for my own amusement.

Of course when ever I got a date I would turn into major Wuss boy and do all the things I shouldn’t. I now understand and it all makes perfect sense.

The best part about your system is that it’s not trying to manipulate women it’s teaching you how to make yourself more attractive to them. I still have a lot to learn but it’s only been a week since I ordered the book so I’m well on my way. Wuss boy no more.

On to the success, remember it’s just the first week so it’s still minor success right now.

I’m naturally introverted so coming up with spur of the moment funny is somewhat of a problem (I’m working on it everyday).

With that said I decided to get some practice with online personals. I had already posted a profile before so I went back made some modifications and started sending emails.

I did ok with my own cocky/funny responses but it was taking a little too much time to write the emails… I started taking some of your examples and modifying them to my own needs.

So far I’m at about a 90% response rate, and I’m only sending emails to the best looking girls on there who have obviously gotten a lot of emails. One of the responses I just got today (she looks like about a 9.5 from her pics) was:

“Hey… as far as I know I am fairly normal… I think! I’m kinda in a hurry so I can’t really write much right now… sorry but I will definitely get back to you Mr. Cuteness! (God this stuff is great, I’m gonna have some fun with this one!)”

Also one of the dates I went on only a day or two after reading your stuff went great. I had her laughing the entire time and even had her telling me about her sex toys. (Most women I know like to talk about sex just as much as guys so if you can bring it up in a cocky/funny way you can have some great conversation.)

Anyway, on to the end. I knew I wasn’t really interested in her so I cut it short and didn’t take things to the next step, but it was great practice and I got an email the next day saying how much she enjoyed herself and that I am naturally charismatic and that if I didn’t vibe her the same way she still wants to hang out.

Oh I don’t want to forget, I used the you want me thing and had her blushing. Needless to say I’m about to start having a lot of fun. Thanks for giving me that great big He-Bitch- Slap and smacking the wuss out of me.

Forever Grateful (I know wussie closing),

D at the U of A

P. S. For those of you who haven’t done it: Read the book!

A. Hey D., you have no idea how glad I am that I could help… and we all need some help at some point in life.

And I REALLY appreciate your comment about my materials not being about manipulating women… but instead being about becoming attractive to women. Most men don’t get this distinction, but once you DO get it, an entirely different world opens up… and all kinds of things become available that weren’t before.

And just so you (and everyone reading this) knows…


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I Was Just Like You When I Got Started
The Cocky & Funny comments didn’t come quickly and naturally to me. I practiced a lot online, chatted with a lot of women, etc. to polish up my skills. It didn’t help that I had to also figure out what Cocky & Funny even was to begin with… but I feel where you’re coming from.

So stay with it. You’re on the right track.

Q.Your material is awesome. It has completely changed my dating and it’s results. I lost a really hot girlfriend late last year, and it wasn’t until I started reading your newsletters that I finally understood what went wrong.

I wussed out, completely. “I just need some room to find myself. It’s not you, it’s me.” Man you were literally quoting my gf!

But now I get it. In the last few months I have been able to get phone numbers every time I go out, if I want to. I get chicks to buy me drinks now, and had one girl force her number on me. Gotta love that.

Even some of the girls with boyfriends I hang out with every now and then are saying I’m cocky, and pull the o’l hit me on the shoulder and give me the “I can’t believe you just said that” look, with a big smile of course. Man everything you have said makes perfect sense, and really works.

I got my first date from an online dating service by replying to this chick with a very cocky and slightly funny statement that I mostly intended to drive her away. She wrote back saying I was way too cocky, but you know what? She went out with me! Muahahahaaa.

I haven’t found the right girl yet, but your techniques have helped me weed out more wrong ones in the last few months than in the last few years before. And I can’t describe how cool it feels to have a stack of numbers that I will never call, but know I could if I wanted too.

I’m about to get your e-book, so I’ll keep you updated on how well that works.

One question though, what’s your deal with tea?

Thanks, CL – Dallas, TX

A. Lol… what’s my deal with tea? It’s classy, cheap, and quick. And you can escape if she winds up being crazy. Try it, you’ll like it. Oh, and iced tea is acceptable as well, by the way.

Now, you said a lot of great stuff in your email…

You’re not the only guy who’s heard those painful words “I need to find myself” and “It’s not you, it’s me.” But now that you understand ATTRACTION better, you’ll definitely be preventing that in the future.

Also, I enjoyed your story about the online personal date… and how she said that you were too cocky, then went out with you. Now you’re getting it, and I like the way you think… you haven’t found the right girl yet, but by beginning to understand attraction you’ve been able to weed out the ones who aren’t right for you faster.

That in mind, I have a question for you…

Did You Read Your FREE BONUS REPORT?
It’s the one you get when you download and read my book… make sure and pay close attention to it. It’s called The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who Are Naturally Attractive To Women, and it’s 100% GUARANTEED to help you understand how to keep the girl you want once you find her.

Go read the report, and thanks for the email.

Q.My name is N, thank you for ur kind email. I have had, for the past six years problems talking to women.

Often I approach one that takes my fancy in a bar and she just laughs in my face, perhaps it is my mullet and novelty beard but i don’t want to change my image as I’m happy with the way i look.

I also seem to find myself feeling sexually pent up and this makes me more desperate and hence starts a chain of cataclysmic problems in which i just frighten off any women by suggesting she “come back to my place”.

I don’t know how to leave this vicious circle of dating desperation i have found myself in. I was just wondering if you had any advice for such a lost cause.

Yours faithfully,

N (the potential loser)

A. Sometimes I get emails from guys who say things like “Are all those stories and emails you print real? Or do you make them up?”…

Mullet and novelty beard? The potential loser?

Yep, that’s a real question, from a real person… I’m here to tell ya… I don’t make any of these stories and questions up… ever. Not even one.

I mean, could I make up stuff like this?

Q. You know I’m not dissing you, I’m sure you provide a good service, but I am a regular guy and I like to do for others, especially women I like, and I’m not gonna hide who I am.

I’m a nice guy who does not play games, I’ll admit I get played, sometimes, but that’s the price I have to pay for being such a great guy. good luck and I hope that not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice, leading to a higher divorce rate.

A. Okay… I’ve included the above letter because I want to use it to demonstrate the attitude of a guy who is naturally unsuccessful with women.

This particular guy actually thinks that his approach of getting played a few times because “That’s the price I have to pay for being such a nice guy” is not only the best thing for him, but also the best thing for everyone else.

Notice the “I hope not too many meaningless relationships come from your advice” comment. The subtle implication here is that what I teach is bad for relationships… and that doing for others and being a nice guy are the ultimate sacrifice and demonstration of your superiority.

Well, I have some sobering news for you…

Doing Nice Things For A Woman Is The Ultimate Way To “Play Games” And “Manipulate” Her
Walking into a relationship with a woman thinking that doing unhealthy, unbalanced things like taking her out, buying her things, and giving her gifts is the biggest way to try to “manipulate” a woman… you’re basically trying to “buy” her attention. It’s the WUSSY thing to do.

Even worse… when women sense this manipulative behavior, they take advantage of the perks without giving anything in return.

And finally, your not-so-subtle suggestion that the things I teach guys contributes to meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate did not go unnoticed. And guess what? It’s also misinformed.

The reality is that YOU are the one who is doing things that are leading to more meaningless relationships and a higher divorce rate.

Stop the insanity, man. WOMEN DON’T WANT WUSSIES. Period. They don’t want men who have to buy their attention and approval. They don’t want men who act like women.

Want to make yourself more attractive to women? Then understand just one simple fact right now:

Women Want Men Who Act Like Men
Do yourself a huge favor. Think this one over carefully. I can tell that you’re not TRYING to manipulate women and do things that lead to a more meaningless relationship and contribute to a higher divorce rate… but you are.

If you’d like to stop doing it, I suggest you click here right now:

On Being A Man…

Q.You have been a god-send the last few months since i discovered your mailing list. It’s been a great daily reminder and motivator. But now i have a kinda odd question.

You’ve always taught that attractive women are always approached and they all have seen and heard all the lines. yada yada. BUT what if I’m not normal and i don’t chase after hot model figures, but rather a down to earth, pretty cute and nice, not too wild, doesn’t even go to bars much.

Would your advice still apply. This situation kinda reminds me of American Pie, where one of the characters, i forget his name, has to go after a not so hot, plain Jane choir girl.

I’m sure if she was real, she would not have been approached by as many guys as a hot girl would be approached by. Does the cocky/funny attitude come off as different for this type of girl, or just kinda rude and pushy.

Please include this in your newsletter as I’m sure there’s a bunch of guys out there that don’t always go after the head cheerleader type. Do it for all of us nerds.

PS. One of my favorite tips in your book was to watch James Bond movies and learn his posture and attitude, etc. Its killer, i swear its worked like gold for me. Lots of contact from females. woohoo

MO from KS

A. Yes, my advice will still apply. Now quit talking about it and thinking about it and get out there and do something.

Find out for yourself. The only one who can really validate this stuff for you is you.

Go use the materials!

Q.Bullseye! Your e-book is exactly right!

It reminds me of when I was flying for the Air Force (Trust me, nobody is cockier than a pilot). My buddies and I would walk into a Dallas bar like we owned the place (shoulders back, chin up, slow walk).

Guys would end up with some absolutely gorgeous women before to long. Sometimes it only took as much as catching a woman looking at you, curling your finger in a come hither fashion and you were off to the races.

After reading your book, I realize the attraction was all about body language. We just did it without thinking about it or having a method. I had no idea there was a method so I want to learn more.

Now I realize just about all the times I’ve been wildly successful with women have to do with cocky+funny and other techniques you mention. “Oh! My hair is such a mess,” she said.

And I replied, “Yeah, it is! I don’t think I can be seen with you!” I had to laugh when I read that one. I actually used that quite a while ago. She grinned, smacked me in the arm and said, “Shut up!” — still grinning.

Also, every time I’ve failed miserably with a woman it is because of something you recognized as failure tactics.

Like you, I’ve been on both sides of the dating capabilities fence and the women and life in general are soooo much better on this side as an alpha male. You’ve done a great job of focusing your product on meeting women but readers should know that you are selling a whole lot more than just technique.

You’re selling a bit of freedom, self-respect, and relaxation. Think about it. what kind of lion would you rather be? The alpha male that owns hundreds of square miles, never goes hungry, and gets laid, or the juvenile male who gets his ass kicked and has to hump a tree for companionship?

It’s good to be the king! It’s all in the mind set.

I’ve got a question. My home town is pretty small and so has small town women looks if you know what I mean so I’m kind of stuck. Luckily, there is a great city about 75 miles away that I’m trying to move to.

I go there pretty often especially since I have family there. Until I move, I probably won’t be going to the city just for a cup of tea and some stimulating conversation.

But I figure on meeting my next girlfriend from the big city I can say, “I’m hanging out with my brother on Saturday. Maybe afterwards you could meet me at Juan Valdez’s cafe for a cup of tea and stimulating conversation.” Sound like a plan? What other suggestions do you have for a guy with high standards living in a small town?

Thanks, SS Colorado

A. You know, as I read your email I thought about that scene in that 80’s classic “Top Gun” where they’re in the bar, and the guys are all in uniform picking up the babes. The arrogance and cocky attitudes coming from Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer were the epitome of what you’re talking about.

It’s interesting that you had that experience in real life.

I’ve only known one guy that was a Top Gun Pilot type of guy. He was from San Diego, and he was actually one of the instructors at the Top Gun school. This guy was probably 5’4″ tall… but he had this attitude about him that said “I am the man.”

He was always surrounded by women, of course.

To answer your question, I think you’re on the right track. I’ve had dates with women that lived 2,500 miles away… no problem.

Instead of maybe afterwards you could meet me you could say “I’m going to be in the area on Sunday… so get me while the gettin is good… and don’t screw this up!”

The “maybe you could meet me” sounds weak.

You’re not looking for approval, remember?

Q. I had the ultimate C&F zen moment at the end of my date last night.

When I first scheduled a date with this girl, I’d been making some comments about sandwiching her in between my 6 o’clock and 10 o’clock (quite literally, I am booked solid… hot dates for weeks in advance, thanks to you and C&F!), so she had better impress me in her allotted time slot since the competition was so fierce.

Anyway, had a fun night of cocktails, busting on her the whole time, keeping her on the fine line between laughing her ass off and omigod-did-he-really-say-that?!

We were saying goodnight in the parking lot after, and the girl literally attacked me.

After making out with her for a few minutes I pulled back and said, totally deadpan, “Not bad… you were almost as good as my 6 o’clock.” At which point the girl practically screamed in (sexual) frustration, “You are SO damn cocky!… and I love it!”

Straight from the proverbial horse’s mouth. 🙂 I’ll let you guess what happened next.

Your material has put me in the driver’s seat in relationships for the first time in, like, ever. I’ve now been on dates with 4 different girls over the last 5 nights.

Girls are fighting over me and my friends think I’m a god… all thanks to you and those three magic words, cocky and funny. Wow. I’m on the verge of nominating you as godfather for my dozens of imminent love children.

E. in Seattle

A. Wow, E., sounds to me like you’re on a rampage.

And isn’t it amazing how we’ve all had women talk about other guys, but most of us wouldn’t dream of mentioning other women? But, oh the effect it has… even when used in jest and fun.

Great story.

Oh, and if you’re reading this right now and thinking to yourself: “I really need to be having four dates in five nights,” then guess what? You’re right. You do.

And I’ll tell you something. If you’re walking around right now and you have no idea HOW to get four dates in five nights, then that’s only the tip of the iceberg.

In other words…

I Know What It’s Like To Have ZERO CLUE How To Succeed With Women
It basically SUCKS. It’s like a constant drag on your mind and emotions. Everywhere you go, and everywhere you look are more reminders of the fact that you don’t know how to attract women.

Well, I spent many years of my life in that same situation, and I finally got to the point where I just couldn’t stand it anymore.

It took me tons of trial and error, learning, testing, trying things that didn’t work, and getting to know guys who were naturals with women… but in the end I figured it out.

If you want to learn all of my very best ideas, techniques, and personal strategies, then I’d recommend that you check out my Advanced Dating Techniques program. It’s taken me literally years to put all of this great material together, and you can get it all in about 12 hours of instant online viewing. (Relax, you don’t need to watch it all at once!)

But you DO need to click here:



And… if you’ve gone through my Advanced Dating Techniques program, and you’d like to learn more specifics… like how to use Body Language to attract women, or how to master the teasing communication skill that I call Cocky & Funny, then go and check out my programs that are designed to help you with those areas…

For example, my program Body Language For Success With Women And Dating is one of the ultimate weapons in your ATTRACTION ARSENAL… it’s designed to teach you how to create and build attraction with your body language and voice tone alone!

If you’d like more details, you can learn more (plus watch some great video clips of the program) here:

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Finally… if you haven’t downloaded my eBook Double Your Dating (and the three FREE bonus booklets that come along with it) then go do that right now. You can download it and be reading it within a few minutes. You can get it here.
Click to learn more…

I’ll talk to you soon.

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Often times I’m out doing my daily thing, and I’ll randomly see guys get tested by chicks …and you know what usually happens?

They push the nuclear button.

That’s their way of dealing with her bs.

These guys don’t want “the unnecessary drama”, so they just go ballistic.

Please listen to me when I tell you, that is NOT effectively responding to her tests.

If you don’t like unnecessary drama, stop doing things that create drama.

That’s it.

But guess what?

She WILL test you.

And this is especially true if you look like “a catch”.

The only question is, how do you handle it?

You can see my strategy here.

Don’t forget to study during this time off from work/school

Now look… I know some weirdo PUA “guru” with painted fingernails is out there somewhere on youtube or on social media saying you have to set her straight… “neg her”…

You’re the “alpha male” …and all that BS nonsense.

Do that and all you’re creating is drama (and work) for yourself.

Why?

Because she’ll NEVER comply.

She’s a chick.

She’s a female.

It’s in her DNA.

There’s a better way to deal with this situation:

GET HER TO LAUGH.

Not cry.

Not feel put down.

This is a cool strategy to learn

Utilize it and remember it always

Not only will you pass her test, but you’ll also have ratcheted up your value in her eyes… the end result?

She’ll see you as DIFFERENT from the other men out there.

Get it?

I hope so.

Now go here and study how to do it.

I even give you the exact words to say for every situation you can imagine:

http://www.nomoreshittests.com

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys,

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:

http://www.nomoreshittests.com

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