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I assume you can get a date. Let’s talk about First Kiss.

…You ring her doorbell. She opens the door and lets you in.

You step in and tell her, “Wow, you look lovely.” This entertains her need to feel beautiful. This also rewards her for taking so much time and care to look nice for you. You always reward proper behavior.

She will smile. With one hand you take her hand. With the other hand, you close the door behind you.

You turn to her and smile, then look at her lips, then softly go in for the kiss. This is a right-hand kiss, meaning you lean your head to your right and she leans her head to her right. As she kisses you back, you wrap your hands around her waist.

Then you slide your hands up her side to her underarms and then her triceps, and you lift her arms and place them, so they are tightly wrapped around your neck.

You wrap one arm behind her shoulder and put your hand on the back of her head. The other arm you wrap around the small of her back. You pull her close in and kiss her slightly more passionately.

You walk forward, so she walks backward, towards the wall. Pull your lips back slightly just before your elbows smash into the wall. Then kiss her very passionately as if you have been waiting 100 years to kiss her.

Press yourself hard against her, like you couldn’t wait to take her and ravish her and have her. With the hand behind her head, grab a fistful of her hair and gently pull down, so her head is forced to pivot back. Kiss the side of her neck. Turn her head slightly away from you and kiss her neck more passionately, but do not suck.

Kiss even lower. Kiss the front of the base of her neck as her chin is held high exposing her neck. As you are doing that, grasp her elbows which are on your shoulders and push her arms up above her head. Slide your hands up her forearms as you kiss higher on the front of her neck.

Grab her wrists and hold them together high above her head as if she is handcuffed. With one hand hold both her wrists together against the wall. With the other hand hold her chin and say “Oh Baby” and then passionately kiss her lips again. Then turn her head to the side and kiss her neck. Release the hold on her chin and wrap her waist.

Her arms are above her head, one of your hands is holding her wrists together, the other is behind her waist. You are kissing her neck. This is very exciting to her to be SO desired. It is so exciting for her to be lightly restrained.

Then step back, move her wrists to be behind your neck, look her in the eyes and say, “I couldn’t wait to see you.”

Step back, so her hands fall from your neck, take one of her hands, and walk toward her sofa with her in tow.

And that’s just walking through the front door and getting a damned kiss.

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You went up to her. You got her number. You convinced her to go out on a date with you. And now, you’re on the date…

Since you did all of the above, you think she’s pretty much yours. Only one thing happens on the date:

You turn her OFF.

Whatever chemistry you had before the date disappears. And instead of getting laid afterwards, you get this:

Blocked or ignored. In other words, you NEVER hear from her again.

Why is it that so many guys turn women off and never hear from them again?

I asked over 50 women that question. And after reading all their responses, I came up with the top 3 characteristics that turn them off most:

1. Cockiness – It’s great to have confidence. In fact, confidence is the top trait women seek in a man. But when you take things too far, you exude cockiness. And that’s a huge turn-off…

One of the easiest ways to convey cockiness is to constantly talk about yourself. Bragging or lying about what you can offer sets off her cockiness radar instantly…

Regardless of how much money you may have or how good-looking you may be, show some humility. You’ll seem like a bigger man for it.

2. Complaining – Nobody wants to be around a negative Nancy. Such people are seen as toxic and total turn-offs…

Avoid talking about negative aspects of your life that may trigger bad feelings. In simple terms, avoid talking about your exes. Nothing good can come of it.

3. Complacency – Deep-down, no woman wants a man who’s satisfied with being average. You should always try to improve yourself mentally and physically to make yourself more attractive…

Read, hit the gym, take classes. Never stop improving, no matter how “perfect” you may think you already are.

Those 3 traits will make you repel women like pesticide does mosquitoes.

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Strippers are hot. They’re sexy. And they REALLY know their way around…

They’re also SUPER easy to get into bed (or under a kitchen table, or behind some bushes, or whatever…) – IF you know a few tricks…

But when I tell people this, the first thing they say is, “I could never **** a stripper!”

Now, if you feel the same way – you’re dead wrong.

Don’t give her money.

Trust me, she doesn’t need it.

And frankly, if you guys do hook up, she’ll probably pay her own way (or even buy YOU dinner and drinks.)

But as soon as you give her money, you’re no longer a potential hookup or boyfriend…

You’re a customer.

This is why you don’t need to be rich to get a stripper. In fact, she has probably had so many “sugar daddy” offers that being with a guy who only has a modest bank account balance (or is dirt poor) will actually feel more real to her.

Instead, connect with her emotionally and honestly.

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Sexual Communication can happen through everything from conversation (which includes letters, emails, texts, etc), to body language, to pheromones, to the animal sounds we make during sex…

And when you’re bad at it, it screws up your life.

Everything from flirting, to dating to relationships, marriage, parenting, and every stage in between is frustrating, fragile, and sometimes just impossible.

When you’re good at it… all of that stuff is fun, durable, and deeply fulfilling.

The 5 Critical Skills of Sexual Communication that I’m going to be focusing on are…

1) Sexual Polarity

The term was popularized by David Deida in the late 90s, but it’s been around since at least the mid 1800s–

A metaphor from electromagnetism that notes that the masculine and the feminine are universally and naturally attracted to each other, exactly as opposite poles of a magnet.

Sexual desire, sexual tension, and that tingling sensation that underlies the difference between “just friends” and romantic interest are caused by sexual polarity…

But unfortunately, most men and women haven’t a clue about how this crucial part of Sexual Communication works.

What’s super crazy about this is that, we all know it when we’re feeling it! And yet most of us have no idea how to “do” it intentionally.

And just to mess with your head and make matters much worse, the Internet is FILLED with a nearly endless amount of truly wrong-headed information on the subject.

2) Talking About Hard Stuff

It’s hard to fire an employee, tell a friend they have bad breath, or negotiate a price on something really important to you…

There are no end to “hard subjects” to talk about in life…

But when these hard subjects involve sex, desire, relationship… in other words, when these conversation happen inside of sexual polarity, it’s about 100 times harder to stay cool, communicate what you are trying to communicate, understand what the other person really wants… and GET WHAT YOU NEED.

3) Understanding What Your Partner Wants Sexually and Romantically

Sometimes this is “hard stuff” to talk about– but just as often it really ought to be FUN STUFF to talk about.

And yet, really asking our partner in a way that gives them permission and safety to really talk about what they want can be excruciating. It can point powerfully to a deficit in trust, or uncomfortable insecurities and fears.

Some partners are super-vocal about exactly what they want and expect in the relationship, and what they want and expect during sex–

4) Dealing With Insecurity & Neediness

Sex and romance are the two areas that are most likely to trigger a human’s insecurity. Needless to say, when we’re insecure, our communication is screwed.

And our biological NEEDS around sex, intimacy, touch, closeness, acceptance, and affection… well… it’s easy to see how humans can quite easily be triggered into neediness in Sexual Communication!

5) How To Become The Kind Of Person That A Highly Desirable Partner Wants To Fall In Love With and Stay In Love With

I’m going to argue that being good at Sexual Communication is, by itself, the master key to this particular endeavor–

If you’re super-good at the first 4, the 5th is nearly guaranteed.

Now of course there is a lot here that just has to do with preference, chemistry, and alignment of current values and life phase…

But also there are some very specific areas of Sexual Communication that powerfully activate trust, commitment, desire, passion, generosity, and love.

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So often I hear from the exact same type of guy…

…The guy who’s married. He’s in trouble. His wife isn’t responding to him.

Here’s the situation:

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“How can I get my wife more interested in having sex?

…Particularly in different positions? All she likes in the missionary position.

She said that sex is nasty. She says she is too big and that she does not like getting naked to have sex.

I tell her that she is not and that she looks great.

Our biggest fights always revolve around sex…”

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Instead of “having sex” you should instead switch to making her mind “escape.”

When in bed, you should “worship” her body, “savor” her body. Take lots of time savoring her body.

Spend lots of time massaging and touching her all over.

Tease her by holding her close to orgasm for a long time.

Then, do NOT ask for anything in return.

I’m serious – don’t do it!

Just kiss her and go to sleep. (You can slip away to wack off if need be, but do NOT let her know this.)

Do that for a few weeks and see how things change.

Be the Man. Lead her.

It is a last-ditch effort. If that won’t work, nothing will.

Good luck Kevin.

For the rest of you reading this:

I hope you’re not in this situation. If your sexual relationship is declining even a little, I would suggest taking steps to turn that around immediately.

Look…

When a woman has an orgasm, her body releases all sorts of different chemicals into her bloodstream that have different purposes.

For example, you’ve probably heard of dopamine – the “feel good” chemical that makes her feel like she’s mainlining high-quality Colombian heroin every time she comes…

But believe it or not, even this unbeatable rush of pleasure isn’t why women NEED amazing sex to stay loyal and respectful towards their partner.

In fact, there are literally hundreds of chemicals released during an orgasm that affect things like how safe she feels around you, the level of attachment she feels toward you, and even how she views you as a potential life-partner.

If you do it Her biological “programming” will have her so hooked on YOU that you’ll need a night off!

And if you’re not constantly “refreshing” these levels by giving her regular orgasms, she is biologically “programmed” to look for a man who will…

…Just like Kevin’s wife.

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Should you tell her you like her…?
Kinda sick here (got the sniffles), but I wanted to take some time to mention something I’ve been noticing something disturbing…

Guys are afraid to let women know they like them…

In fact if you look at most of the popular “techniques and tactics” in the community, almost all of the tactics in the community have to do with telling women you DON’T like them.

Now I understand that when most of us find the community we may have had some bad experiences with women.

Some of us may have been insulted by women, or rejected or both.

In fact once I learned about the idea of letting girls know what you like about them (“Qualification” in nerd speak) my entire game took off…

So in addition to reminding you that it’s ok to let girls know you like them EVEN as you’re meeting them, I want to give you some guidelines on how to let girls know you like them.

1. Don’t compliment her beauty without making her work for it.

Anytime you compliment a woman on her beauty, you want to make it conditional. The classic community example being “You’re very pretty, BUT what else do you have going for you other than your looks?”

You can also acknowledge her looks in a matter of fact manner by saying something like “Obviously you’re very pretty, but beauty doesn’t get you any points with me. What I like about you is your sense of humor.”

The more you can acknowledge but not be affected by her beauty, the better.

2. Use releases when needed.

A release is a simple non-sequitur tease that you “add on” to a compliment if the compliment has made the women a little uncomfortable.

One of the key subtleties about releases is that you don’t ALWAYS need one.

In fact you ONLY need them if the compliment you have given a woman has made her uncomfortable. This is where you need to learn to read women’s faces or speak Womanese as I like to call it.

=>I couldn’t believe what women were REALLY telling me when I learned this…

If a woman ever has a facial flinch or moves herself out of your intimate area as you compliment her, you probably needed a release.

3. Commit to the compliment.

A lot of guys have a big problem when it comes to complimenting women.

They want to be “cool” so they use words like cool, or good. Or my personal favorite “nice.” That is the language of the dial-tone.

Instead use some adjectives and creativity. Also make sure that you have an idea of what makes her unique, whether it’s a funky fashion style she put a lot of time into or a unique thing she says to emphasize herself.

Every girl is full of awesome qualities, you just have to look for them.

(Better yet, use this technique to draw them out of her)

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Women expect men to lead. They expect men to pursue. They expect men to be men.

Here is Sara:

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“I so badly want to meet a man who is learning about relationships.

I am just searching for a man who needs what I need, friendship with benefits.

But I am finding self-centered men.

in the first meeting in public we will like each other, but later nothing happens, because they expect me to call, to text to meet or have sex.

They want to be pleased, led by a woman.

I prefer to have nobody than dealing with men like that. Men like that will be in bed like that too.

Sara”

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Looking for a woman to please you and take care of you like your mommy is a symptom of NGD – Nice Guy Disorder.

Never tolerate a man who behaves like this.

Today I want to up your game. You need not just to get rid of your bad habits, you need to sharpen your saw – build badass habits.

I want you to get serious about advanced material.

Take a look at “Bring Out Her Inner Slut.”

When you can operate in her world like a magician, you will be the exact opposite of what Sara was talking about.

You will really know what it’s like to have the adoration appreciation and love of a woman when she’s winded, exhausted and soaking wet from what you’ve just done to her.

Bring Out Her Inner Slut

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“Preselection”.

Basically, nearly all females on earth choose who
they want to mate with off of pre-selection.

So, to give the example of the Goldfish —
yeah I’m going there — it goes like this:

Male goldfish all look the same.

Females need to mate.

So, who do the females choose?

The male goldfish that other female goldfish are
mating with.

How does this play out with us human’s?

When a girl decides who she wants to be sexual
with… she goes for the guy that other women are
choosing.

They think deep down in there instincts,

“Well other women want him. Therefore he must have superior genes”.

Hold up. Before you say “looks”, “money”, or “fame”…

Not so fast.

In case ya haven’t noticed social media has changed
a lot for women. They are not the virgins they were
back in the ole day. Female role models now seem to
be naked in a music video… or in a more “Extremely
NSFW” video that was “leaked”.

Women are more independent now too.

The guys they like, the guys they notice, it’s not on looks.

It’s all about “Pre-selection”.

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