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Let’s talk about “Romance”

In everything I do I assume you are trying to set the stage for a relationship, as opposed to a one night stand.

If you are just looking for one night stands, study pick up.

Today, in the spirit of fostering wonderfully sexual relationships, let’s talk about the magical word “Romance.”

Romance is the socially acceptable word for sexuality. In the context of romance, sexuality is socially acceptable. Think back to any wedding reception you’ve been to. Everybody thinks it’s so romantic. Even Grandma is happy. Everybody is celebrating. And when the bride and groom leave, everybody cheers them on.

What everybody knows, but nobody says, is that the bride and groom are going to go up to their room to FUCK! And it’s ok with everybody, even the government that gave them the license, even the priest that married them.

But you don’t have to get married to be romantic.

Women love romance. In the context of romance, they get everything they need. They get all the feelings they have always wanted to feel. They get the socially acceptable context in which to be sexual. And what they really want, but don’t say, is they want to FUCK!

And you don’t have to immediately promise a committed long term relationship to be romantic.

In fact, that would only scare her away. No woman wants a man to instantly fall in love with her just because they had sex. She does not want a man who will put her on a pedestal, or supplicate to her. That would be weak.

She wants a man who is strong. She wants a man that is masculine. It is attractive to her because it contrasts her femininity. It makes her feel like a woman.

And a woman does not want a man who is too mushy. But you can still be romantic and still be strong, with your own sense of self and with masculinity.

So, how to be romantic without being mushy?

Do little things. For example, while you and she are out, make a paper flower for her. You can do a search on the internet for how to turn an ordinary napkin into a beautiful rose. Recite a poem to her. Women love it. Women love romance.

Work on the romance and the sex will follow.

I’m telling you guys, stop thinking about getting to the sex so much. Think about her heart and her mind. Play to her emotions. You will be surprised at how appreciative they can be.

Be strong without being pushy. Stand up for yourself and what you believe, but also respect others and their views.

Be emotionally available without being needy. Talk about real interpersonal issues, but always remain self-assured. Ask her for advice on some deep issue. Listen when she speaks of her life.

Take an interest in her. Remember the things she says about herself and her life. Learn about her, learn what makes her tick.

You will use all of this later. The most important thing you can do for a woman is to understand her.

When you do that, he feels special, she feels emotionally connected to you, and that opens the floodgates for her to have romantic feelings for you.

You don’t have to touch a woman to give her an orgasm!

In many cases, it’s possible to give women orgasms over text or email.

Sexuality for women is all mental.

So how do you get into her head and her heart?

It’s all about doing these things:

1. Be dominant and provide leadership.

Women are sexually submissive creatures. They yearn to follow the lead of a dominant man. It’s programmed into their DNA.

2. Awaken her sexuality.

Women actually want to have sex. Women love sex. Women are far more sexual than men. You just have to speak their language, and that is the language of SEXUAL EMOTIONS.

Make her feel all the emotions a woman craves to feel. A woman wants to feel special, cherished, close, desired, womanly, feminine, beautiful, and sexy.

3. Lead her mind and her body will follow.

You don’t have to touch a woman to give her an orgasm. In fact, sometimes touching a woman doesn’t give her an orgasm. But touching her mind ALWAYS DOES.

4. Elicit sexual emotions without talking about sex, or mentioning body parts or sexual acts.

It is possible to give a woman an orgasm by eliciting sexual emotions alone. Find out exactly how to do it in “Give Women Hot Phone Sex.”

Sex is nothing but emotions. Period. Think of sex as a big theatre production. There’s a stage with scenery . There are actors. There are theatre props. And everybody in the audience is enjoying the play.

What are they enjoying? They are enjoying experiencing the emotions that are elicited by the plot in the story.

But they could still experience the emotions of the plot if there were no theatre props. They could still experience the emotions of the plot if there were no scenery. In fact, they could still experience the emotions of the plot if they were simply reading the book!

So that’s why I say, “the sexual organs are nothing but theatre props.” It’s the emotions that create the orgasms. Just rubbing the sexual organs does not create orgasms. But eliciting the emotions always creates orgasms. No props needed!

Once you give her an orgasm using only emotions, she will give her body to you.

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It Just Happened

I have spent a lot of time talking about mental, sexual foreplay and setting the tone and taking the lead.

There is one point in the process where you do not want to talk too much.

When things are actually headed to the bedroom.

This is the famous “It just happened” clause…

Let’s say you’re with a new woman, and you have been romancing her and giving her plenty of sexy dirty talk.

She will eventually end up with you in your living room.

Now, she knows exactly what’s going on. She’s alone with you in your place, and you put on some sexy music. She knows the deal.

But whatever you do, do NOT say it! Do not articulate it. Do not give it words. Women never want to talk about what they are doing, when they are going in a sexual direction.

But they want it to happen NONE THE LESS.

You want to just let things happen as if “it just happened.”

She should always be able to rationalize it later by simply saying “it just happened.” And that is only possible if you do NOT talk about it…

…Even while it’s happening!

You want it to be like two people got swept away in passion.

But eventually, things escalate. Two people are making out passionately on the couch. And at some point, things are going to move into the bedroom.

But you don’t SAY that. Instead, you simply stand up, take her hand, and lead her into the bedroom.

Note: You do not SAY what is going to happen. You do not ASK for permission. You just do it.
Now she is free to just pull you back onto the couch, and that is fine. You can later figure out how you misjudged the situation, and you can make the move again another time.

Eventually, she will simply follow you. She is not going to SAY that she is going to follow, she will simply follow your lead.

“It just happened!”

Ok, so now you two are on the bed making out passionately.

By this point, a woman has already decided how far she is going to go. She has already decided in her mind what she will and will not do that night. There is nothing more you can say or do in the bedroom to change her mind, without losing respect.

But she will not SAY what she is willing to do or not, and you certainly can’t ask her, because that would violate the “it just happened” rule.

And you do not know what decision she had made. So, you have to find out for yourself by doing all that silly clumsy stuff like taking off her clothes one piece at a time while she’s lying on her back.

It’s silly, I know, but that’s how it goes when you are doing the incremental “it just happened” stuff.

Keep the talk metaphorical. Avoid using the names of body parts. It is all about being swept away by passion for each other. It is all a mind thing.

At some point, she may stop you. If she does, do NOT push hard past that. If you push too hard, she will lose respect for you.

If it doesn’t go further that night, let it be. Act like nothing wrong happened.

I know this is hard for some of you guys to swallow, but be confident in knowing that she WILL melt in your arms.

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Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part III.

Tactic #3: Employ her/fire her

When she mentions something that she’s good at, or an area where she has experience, tell her you’re “hiring” her to help you with it. This frames you as the more powerful one in the conversation, and gives you a reason to “fire” her at any time (in a playful way).

You say something like:

“Wow Jennifer, you seem like a smart girl who really knows what’s up. I just decided, I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.”

Or….

“Wow, it seems like you know all the nightclubs and cool spots in this town. I’m hiring you. From now on you’re my personal party planner whenever I have friends come to town.”

You get the idea. You can “hire” her to do anything.

You can make her your personal party DJ, fashion stylist, gym trainer, etc…

One time I had a cute girl with PERFECT breasts tell me that she was a writer…

So I told her, “Okay, you’re hired. You’re going to be my personal biographer from now on. You’ll write the book about my life that will inspire future generations of men. So you’ll need to tag along with me, and we’re going to go on some adventures together…”

That girl and I dated for the next two months and it was some of the best sex of my life. The “book project” was never mentioned again. That line just WORKED to get her home with me, and I was showing the kind of “cocky confidence” that girls love, the way a fat kid loves cake… The fun part of this tactic is, when she says something that you disagree with, you can “fire” her: “Oh my God, I can’t believe you just like that movie. That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the girl over there in the red dress she can submit her resume.”

It’s all in good fun, but you’re sending the message that you’re the one in control and calling the shots. As long as BEFORE the teasing you spent some time getting her to feel comfortable with you, and interested, these types of lines will create sexual tension and make her want to PROVE herself. If you want to learn a quick 5-minute system for making any girl feel like she has “sexual chemistry” with you, look at this

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Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part II.

Tactic #2: Accuse her of hitting on YOU.

If it’s time to get her a drink – or she offers to buy you one – say, “Okay, one drink, but promise you won’t try to take advantage of me.”

Or, “It’s going to take more than a drink to get me into bed. I expect dinner and a movie at least.”

If she touches you, you can say “Hey, hands off the merchandise. That’ll be twenty dollars.”

If she asks you a question about yourself, don’t give her an answer.

Say: “I know you’re totally hitting on me right now, because that’s a question I ask girls when I’m hitting on them. It’s okay, I just want you to know I expect you to buy me dinner and a movie before anything happens.”

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Fast & Cocky Flirting Tips Women Get Wet For! Part I.

Once you’re into a conversation with a girl (and I’ll explain the #1 way to approach a girl and “break the ice” in a moment), use these four simple tactics during the conversation:

Tactic #1 Mention how you two could “never date.”

You say something like this to her:

“You and I could NEVER be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike. We’d be breaking up all the time, and then having wild make-up sex and destroying all of my furniture and waking up the neighbors. It’s probably not a good idea.”

(And then you change topics.)

Or you say:

“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…”

Or…

“You’re such a nice girl. You really shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”

Or…

“You’re such a sweet girl…you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”

It’s all about creating SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with her, and a big part of this is making her think you are NOT into her. You mess with her mind, and then you reel her in and seduce her. Go here and I’ll show you.

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Turning a failed relationship around

There’s a lot of messages from husbands who are in dire need of a sexual 911.

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How can I get my wife more interested in having sex?

…Particularly in different positions? All she likes in the missionary position.

She said that sex is nasty. She says she is too big and that she does not like getting naked to have sex.

I tell her that she is not and that she looks great.

Our biggest fights always revolve around sex.

Thanks,

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Mental foreplay buddy.

Command respect. Respect her. Do not be needy.

Then, perhaps gently in your case, start to implement dirty talk.

Instead of “having sex” you should instead switch to making her mind “escape.”

When in bed, you should “worship” her body, “savor” her body. Take lots of time savoring her body.

Spend lots of time massaging and touching her all over.

And dirty talk. Always dirty talk. That means narrate what you’re doing as you’re doing it.

Spend lots of time slowly working the deep spot or rubbing her clit and tease her by holding her close to orgasm for a long time.

Then, do NOT ask for anything in return.

I’m serious – don’t do it!

Just kiss her and go to sleep. (You can slip away to wack off if need be, but do NOT let her know this.)

Do that for a few weeks and see how things change.

Be the Man. Lead her. Command respect. Be exciting. And everything before and after sex is mental foreplay.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

3 Shocking Rough Sex Secrets That Will Have Her Begging You For More…

Many guys I know who use these 3 techniques get regular texts from women saying things like “I’m so wet thinking about last night” or “I can’t wait to feel your touch again.”

Believe it or not, it’s actually very easy.

1) Hold Her Down.
Women (especially feminine women) love feeling contained during sex since it allows her to feel secure, and she can freely express her sexuality with you.

The easiest way to do this is to take her wrists, and hold them together over her head while you’re on top of her. You can do this while making out, or during sex.

You can also hug her tight, and keep her “secured” that way. The important thing is that she feels restrained, and in a way, under your control.

2) The “Spank”.
Spanking a girl is the easiest way to get into impact play, since you’re not going to hurt her by slapping her on the butt. And honestly, in my experience, it’s pretty rare to find a girl who doesn’t like it after she’s tried it.

Start firmly, and with an open palm. To judge whether she likes it, you can ask, “Is that hard enough for you?” or “Want it harder?”

That allows you to stay in control and keep her feeling good without losing any dominance.

3) The “Choke”.
This is the most advanced of these 3 moves by far. And it’s probably the toughest to master.

When choking her, you do not want to squeeze her windpipe. And you don’t want to grab her carotid arteries on the side of her neck too hard to where she passes out.

You want to choke her just right… with just enough pressure that she feels totally under your control in bed without getting hurt.

So start a little bit lighter than you might think, and focus on lightly pressing against her carotid arteries.

If she wants you to choke her harder, she’ll tell you.

Another way to do this is to grab her on the back of the neck. Since that’s muscle, you can be a little rougher, and she’ll love it since it’ll still feel like you’re in control.

Those 3 Rough Sex Secrets will get you started on your way to being the dominant, in-charge guy she wants in the bedroom.

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It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited!

It’s frustrating to see men get so confused by husbands who just don’t get that when the day is through and the responsibilities of the day are complete, their wives just don’t seem to be in the mood.

Hmmm.

Women don’t think like you.

A man’s thinking is very compartmentalized. He can think, “OK the laundry’s done, the motorcycle is fixed, phone calls are all returned. The itinerary is set for work in the morning. So what now? I know! Let’s have sex!”

And then they go find their wives and initiate. To varying results.

A woman is like a 74 Cadillac on a cold winter morning. You have to warm that 472 cubic inch V-8 before you can step on the gas. You can’t simply start the engine in 20-degree weather and go.

You can’t just walk up to an unaroused woman, perhaps distracted by the stresses of the day, pat her on the ass and say “let’s go.” Well, you could, but I wouldn’t recommend it.

You must master the art of mental foreplay. You must have her engine running all day, even for days on end.

It is your job to set up the situation so she can be sexually excited.

Once you’ve done that properly, the sky is the limit.

You can tell her to do anything, and she will do it. And especially because you tell her to do it. That is especially exciting for her. It is one of the many ways that a woman pleases her man, by demonstrating her responsiveness to him.

But you must create the excitement. How?

With dirty talk. Or I could say “erotic narration” or “storytelling.”

Dirty talk is not spewing a string of profanity at your woman. It is not being raunchy.

There is a difference between dirty talk and raunchy talk. Raunchy talk turns off all women.

It reeks of horny. It cheapens the act. It is degrading.

It is contradictory to having respect for her as an individual.

She could not possibly respond to it, because to do so would define her as a slut, cheap, and loose.

And it puts the man in the category of “most men.” It takes away from the “uniqueness” of him.

The magic of proper mental foreplay is appreciating her. Letting her know how beautiful and attractive she is.

And then engage in sexy storytelling that will make her imagination run wild.

Dirty talk and mental foreplay are completely covered in the program, “Give Women Hot Phone Sex.” While you will be lethal with a phone, the concepts are critical to all aspects of a relationship and should be continuously applied.

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The female horniness crisis

There is a worldwide crisis afoot.

And I’m not talking about immigration, nationalism, or freedom of speech…

I’m talking about the underlying crisis that is causing all the above…

…Women aren’t getting the sex that they need.

Women are horny monsters.

Their lack of getting what they need and men’s frustration at being unable to provide it is creating all the underlying tension at the root of society’s ills. It could destroy the world.

We all need to do our part to stop this from happening.

I have found in most cases, women are far hornier than men.

One woman I knew who was in her late 30s told me, “I get so damn horny! I feel like a 16-year-old boy. It’s not fair!” Another woman told me, “It gets worse at the time I ovulate. Every man I see with a cute butt I want to jump him right then and there and ride him hard!”

Even so, women ONLY do these things when led by a man.

They cannot do it themselves. They cannot initiate themselves.

They can’t even suggest it because that would be contrary to being a woman. She needs a man to lead her.

Where is she going to find such a man? Men like this are extremely rare.

That’s why the world is going to hell, and that’s what makes the master lover such a precious find.

That’s why as many men as possible need to learn how to lead!

Look I get it, we were all fooled by social conditioning…

Social conditioning protects women from men who only want to use women for sex.

If social conditioning trains people to believe that women must first be in love to have sex or that they must first be in a committed relationship, then women always have a defense against men who view women as simply objects. Rightly so.

It keeps teenagers in check. Parents teach their children that sex is only for love and marriage so their children won’t go out and have sex and end up with teenage pregnancies.

And that worked for generations.

The problem now with first, second, third wave feminism and things like #metoo is that men and women have been made equal. Some would argue women have been put above men.

I’m not arguing the politics or ethics of any of this, I’m simply pointing out that men are confused and turning away from taking any kind of lead and women are increasingly isolated from men and frustrated.

Somebody has to be the adult in the room, take charge and set things right.

That’s us.

You need the power to take charge, first of yourself and then of your relationships with women in and out of the bedroom.

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Enlist here, now before it’s too late.

Mass celibacy and sexual frustration will throw the world into another dark age.

It’s not too much to say you are doing your part to save the planet.

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