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What makes women sexual

A woman’s sexuality has been a mystery to many a befuddled and sexually frustrated husband.

They think their wives are insane. Or at the very least, impossible to understand.

Neither is true. Usually.

Females have the biological imperative to reproduce.

Natural selection has weeded out the ones who are not driven to have sex. Women have the chemistry to be sexual, in fact, horny.

The female orgasm serves two purposes:

First, since it feels so good, she will want to do it often. Secondly, it serves to create muscle contractions that pull the sperm into the uterus.

Men also have the biological imperative to reproduce. We are all very familiar with that. Men are also subconsciously driven to please women because it gives our sperm a better chance of making it to the egg.

So, it is completely understandable that we want our woman to have an orgasm.

From a DNA perspective, it’s all about getting that sperm to the egg.

But here’s the thing:

If a woman’s subconscious objects to having an orgasm, for whatever reason, it will not happen.

Therefore, you must appeal to her mental sexuality.

While women have the chemistry to be sexual, it has absolutely no effect if the mental is not there.

That is a defense against being impregnated by a lesser man.

Often as a marriage deteriorates and the trust and connection with it, a woman’s subconscious becomes repulsed by the husband, and the sex dries up.

Often that is cited as the reason for the divorce.

The many women I spoke with, were recently divorced:

In almost every case, she had become bored with her husband. Basically, she lost respect for him.

The interesting thing is, she was no longer excited about sex. She may have even stopped having orgasms. She no longer could get aroused. She could not even get excited through fantasies. She didn’t even masturbate anymore.

Her subconscious was shutting down her sexuality.

She would actually become convinced that there was something wrong with her.

Then, she would get divorced. After some time, she would start dating again and go through a string of dorks and jerks.

Then… she would meet an exciting man, a man who stimulates her mind, who leads her, who brings out in her that sexual creature that yearns to live. She becomes highly sexual and can’t get it enough.

The cycle begins again.

This illustrates how female sexuality is all mental.

The chemical reactions simply follow the mental.

Bring Out Her Inner Slut!

Forget your failures and focus on THIS…

2 Ways to Positively Deal with Rejection (When You Are Learning Game)…

I had a very weird weekend…

I just wasn’t really feeling going out but somehow ended up doing it anyway.

Some nights you get “rewarded” for this.

This weekend was NOT one of those times, and it got me thinking.

Ironically enough about how to think to keep yourself SANE as you are getting better with women.

As I went through my journey in through the community, I accidentally went down a lot of WRONG roads in terms of the way I thought.

So I’ll be trying to help you guys avoid these pitfalls that a lot of guys fall into.

Today I want to talk about something I realized this weekend; the importance of having “a short memory.”

One thing I constantly drill into myself is the idea that past results are no indicator of future success.

As a result you want to spend as LITTLE time as possible thinking about your past failures.

Especially when you’re out in the “field”. When you’re out meeting women, it’s really important that you maintain your state at all costs.

So when an approach goes badly you need to be able to forget it as soon as it happens.

Here’s a few ways that my friends and I will deal with rejections.

1. Laugh about them and BLOW them out of proportion with your friends.

Instead of saying the girls were uninterested and never hooked, I’ll say they were “Fembot lesbians of death.”

2. Blaming the girls.

I got this one from one of my natural roommates in college. Anytime a girl would reject him, he would just say she was a bitch. And that would be it.

So now when I get blown out, I’ll often think to myself, “Wow a lot of lesbians out tonight.”, or “Man all these girls are weird.” You don’t actually say it to the girls, but to yourself or your friends as a joke.

Then immediately forget the approach and go do another one. The field is not a place to analyze yourself. It’s a place to take action.

The flip side of this is that you do want to dwell on your successes. When you have an “on” night or get a great reaction you want to remember that and use it as motivation to do future approaches.

I personally like to think about other successes I’ve done right before I go into an approach.

You also want to make sure that you take responsibility for your success and don’t downplay them, by saying it wasn’t you the girl was just looking to get laid etc…

If you can keep yourself from dwelling on the bad approaches in the past and VISUALIZING failure you’ll be halfway home. If you can find confidence from your successes you’ll be all the way there.

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What Your Ex Is Doing Right NOW

Since you’re reading this, I’m going to assume 3 things:

You’re lonely and feeling down and depressed
You’re wondering what your ex is doing right now
You want your ex back so you can kill your loneliness and kill all the mystery
Well you know how they say the truth hurts? This is going to hurt a little…

Here’s what your ex is probably doing right now as you read each and every word of this message….

She’s thinking of her new man. Thinking of how he gives her all those butterflies in her stomach that make her excited to wake up every morning…

She’s wondering about how to keep his attention. Maybe she’ll do it by sending some naughty pics of her “assets”…

She’s wondering what she’ll wear to their date tonight. And whether or not she’ll wear panties underneath…

She’s wondering how to seduce him further. Should she wear sexy lingerie after the date while they Netflix and chill? Will she go full-naughty and wear those crotchless panties she just bought?…

She’s fantasizing about how it will feel to have him inside her. And how good it will feel to wake up by his side…

Most of all, she’s fantasizing about their future together. And how he’ll be able to fulfill her needs like YOU never could.

Of course, she could be doing none of the above…

Why?

Because she could be in bed with him right now. And she could be so “busy,” she won’t have time to think.

Now I’m sure reading this has ticked you off to no end. But before you spy on her social media to see who her new man is, do this instead:

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How ugly guys sleep with girls way “out of their league”

Here’s a shocking fact:

Did you know that a woman can be 100% attracted to you, but NEVER want to sleep with you?

And yet…

A woman can be totally UN-attracted to you…

And still get physical with you immediately!

If you’ve ever seen a girl hook up with some douchebag she didn’t even like, and then complain about it afterwards… then you know this is true.

Why Girls Bang JERKS (the truth you were never told)?

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A Dom always protects his woman

A Dom is first and foremost a protector of his woman. She must feel safe and protected by you for her to be able to open up and be wildly sexual.

You protect her from both outside forces like weirdo guys and from having a jealous or untrustworthy boyfriend.

That means you also protect her from your own BS!

Let me use an example that many of you and I have experienced:

Other men approaching your woman in a bar or a nightclub.

At some point, you are going to have to visit the Men’s room. This is where it gets interesting.

Simply say, “Okay, Baby, I gotta visit the Men’s room. I’ll be right back.” Don’t make a big deal out of it. She’s a big girl and can handle being alone as she waits for you. Then leave for the Men’s room. Make your visit as quick as possible.

Understand this: She will be a woman standing alone at the bar.

It’s like raw meat for the hungry circling sharks. There is an extremely high probability that some guy will approach her and start talking to her. How you handle, this is very important.

When you return from the Men’s room, and some guy is talking to your woman, you don’t know who he is. Chances are he is simply some guy trying to pick her up.

But he could be her boss or some guy who works for her. Or he could be an ax murderer. You simply don’t know.

When you return to her, face her, put your arm around her waist, say, “Hi Baby” and pick up your drink and take a sip. It’s as if you are ignoring the guy.

You have made it clear that this is your woman, without confronting him. Chances are the guy will simply walk away.

Do NOT ask her about it. Do NOT make a big deal out of it. Simply return to regular conversation. If she wants, she will tell you about what the guy said, and she probably will, but do NOT ask her about it.

It’s as if it’s no big deal to you. It’s as if it happens all the time because she is so attractive to men. Remember, it was not her fault that some guy approached.

Be protective, not possessive. And do it without challenging anybody.

Are you starting to get the Dom vibe yet?

If it is some guy she knows, she will introduce you to him. In this case, shake his hand and support your woman in her life and her friends.

If it is a persistent predator that continues bullying his way in, do NOT challenge the guy. Simply say to your woman, “I have something to show you” and take her hand and lead her away from the situation. When you have taken her to a neutral location, say to her, “I was concerned about that guy, so I took you away from that situation.” She will then fill you in on what the predator said.

Again, protect her, do not be possessive. And do NOT in any way blame her for what happened.

Never condemn your woman for talking to some guy who was trying to pick her up. Maybe your woman just didn’t want to be rude trying to get him to buzz off. We all know that some men can be persistent. Just leave it be.

Now she feels safe. You have her covered, and you have your own shit together.

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“I love you because I need you.” vs. “I need you because I love you.”

A Nice Guy is not genuine.

He is available to all and emotionally vulnerable to all, while the real man shares those things only with his special woman.

Immature love says, “I love you because I need you.” Mature love says, “I need you because I love you.”

We have said a number of times that one of the qualities a woman needs in her man is “emotional availability.” But what is really meant by this? It’s worth exploring because this is one of those points where a guy can get his wires crossed and start thinking that women actually want Nice Guy behavior.

It’s not that simple.

“Those who cannot acknowledge their vulnerability – who are afraid to rely on someone else – cannot truly become one with their partner…” writes Rabbi Boteach in “Kosher Sex;” “Loneliness comes about not when there is no one around whom you need, but rather when there is no one around who needs you. The misery of having no one around who requires your love is far greater than having no one to give you love” (pg. 198).

The difference between the immature, needy Nice Guy and the mature loving man is when, with whom, and how genuinely a guy lets down his guard. Make no mistake, we are indeed talking about showing weakness, about being vulnerable…

…But the needy Nice Guy shares his weaknesses with everyone: he tears up in a crowded movie theater on a first date, will speak openly with near strangers about how painful or how frightening an experience was, will tell any of his female friends who will listen how lonely he feels without a woman in his life.

He will tell his girlfriend about the stressful situation at work and how he fears losing his job – then call up his sister and have the identical conversation with her.

The Nice Guy thinks that his greatest virtue is his ability to be indiscriminate – he is open and available to all.

Of course, the Nice Guy’s sharing isn’t really all that genuine, because rather than being revelatory it is actually designed to cover up some other aspect of himself.

Okay, maybe he really is that shallow that this man, by contrast, is the real him coming through. But more likely he is prattling on about that operation he had or how mean everyone was to him at football camp ten years ago because the thing that is actually on his mind, that
consumes his thoughts, is how much he wants to fuck that pretty blonde girl over there – and he figures he better keep talking to cover up his thoughts!

When a squishy parts woman meets a Nice Guy and hears his song-and-dance, she immediately knows instinctively that he is either A) hopelessly substance-less and weak or B) highly duplicitous.

You would be correct if you guessed that women are not interested in courting either of those traits.

Even most low self-esteem women will avoid anyone with this behavior pattern like the plague, which is part of why even though they are no better people at heart, Bad Boys have so much more luck with women.

He would rather drop dead than be thought of as “needy.” Every time a Nice Guy meets a new woman he searches her face, wondering, “Will you be the one who is willing to try to rescue me?”

Every time the mature loving man meets a new woman (assuming he is not already in a relationship), he searches her face wondering, “Will you be the one who is capable of understanding me? (and thereby save me).” He doesn’t reveal much if any, of his vulnerable self to his acquaintances. And he waits to reveal any of it to his lover until he is certain that she is something special.

That is the guy that we want to be.

And that is the man that women are searching for.

Make yourself to be such man!

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New Conversation Skills To Attract Women 2

Lets say you see this great looking chick on the street and you tell her, “That’s an unusual looking dress you’re wearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?” She says, “Your mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navy store.” Key Words: Old Navy.

“Oh, so you’re in the Navy, huh?” “No silly. You know, the big store over at the Mall.” Key word: Mall. “Oh, so you like going to the Mall and buying strange looking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy them also?”

“My girlfriends are neat dressers and my dress is very popular I’ll have you know!” Key phrases: “girlfriends are neat dressers” and “dress is popular”. “Well, if your girlfriends are neat dressers in a popular dress like you’re wearing then I’m going into the shower curtain clothing business…”

I know, this is a lame example but the lessons are this.

1) You start a conversation with however you want then pick out key words or phrases from what the person says.

2) You repeat them in what you say then listen for new key words in there next response.

3) You add a little something new into the conversation repeating there words you’re using as Key words or phrases. This tells them you’re listening, even though you’re turning things around to be c/f in this situation.

It just takes a little practice. This is just one example of how you can start a conversation and keep it going. Hopefully it can be of help to you’re readers.

When I’m having a conversation with a woman, I’m not just listening for any key word… I’m listening for a particular kind of key word (or words). I’m always on the alert for any words or phrases that can be twisted, turned around, misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?) in one of a few particular ways…

…preferably in a way that says she stupid, ditzy, sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.

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Here’s what I’m talking about…

She says “No, I bought this from the Old Navy store…” Instead of just keying into “Navy” and saying “Oh, so you’re in the navy, huh?”, why not take it to the next step and actually make fun of her…

“Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in the Navy a long time ago… in the Old Navy?”

Now you’re busting on her as well, and it’s funny.

She says “No silly. you know, the big store over at the Mall.” You might try “What kind of mall are YOU shopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresses like that one too?”

Again, you’re hinting that she has funky taste and she shops in weird places.

She says “My girlfriends are neat dressers and my dress is very popular I’ll have you know!” You could go with “Oh, you have girlfriends? You have more than one? Do they all know that you think of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of them the special one? By the way, if you have cute girlfriends, then I think you and I are going to get along very well.”

Are you with me here?

What I’m doing is not only looking for key words to latch onto, but I’m also looking for ways to spin them to make fun, tease, and subtly suggest various kinds of racy topics.

There is a bazillion more examples of how to do it here, so check them out…

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In the meantime, here’s what I’m saying:

Use “Key Words” In A FUNNY Way, And It Works Like MAGIC
Once upon a time, a guy I know very well went into a nightclub. He was talking to a girl at that club for awhile, when she said “Well, I’m getting tired. I think it’s time for me to go home.”

The guy answered “Go home?! I just met you. I’m not going home with you!” She said “No, I mean I’m going home. I’m tired.” He shot back “Maybe you don’t hear me. I’m not going home with you, so don’t even ask anymore.”

She said “No, that’s not what I’m saying…” He replied “And besides, I’m sure my place is nicer than yours… so if anything, you’re coming home with me.”

This went on and on for about an hour or so. And you guessed it… she went home with him.

If you like these and want more tips on meeting women and fun conversation starters you’d love this book…

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Why do I say women have an inner slut?

“Bring Out Her Inner Slut” is one of the most taboo and powerful products.

It was initially going to be called “How to Have an Exciting Successful Relationship,” because, in the end, that’s really what it achieves.

Calling it “How to Make Your Woman Wildly Crazy About You,” would work too because that’s precisely what’s going to happen when you do all the things instructed you to do.

But “Bring Out Her Inner Slut” is a catchy title that speaks to all of us as men, and really is the heart of the matter.

It is what has to happen in order for the rest to be good.

Every man’s dream is a good girl in the living room, slut in the bedroom.

In order to have that you must first have respect, and then genuine desire.

By bringing out her inner slut, you are going to make her wildly crazy about you, and you are going to enjoy an exciting, successful relationship.

You are the Candyman. You are a magician who can bring her desires to life.

That is very powerful and something no other man can do.

There is no endeavor more satisfying than taking a proper, respectful woman and turning her into a wild, screaming, sex-crazed slut (in the bedroom that is).

By slut, I do not mean a promiscuous woman. In fact, by doing all of the things in the book, your woman would not risk losing what she has with you.

When a woman has become wildly crazy about her man, no other man compares.

That is the magic sweet spot that we all want to get to in our relationships.

In “Bring Out Her Inner Slut,” a slut is a woman who is sexually uninhibited, animalistic, raw, ruthlessly expressive, and engages in taboo sexual activity with her man in the context of a successful, secure relationship.

Context is key!

Think about it this way…

“Slut” is a harsh word. No woman wants to be a “slut,” but the following statement is true:

A woman has powerfully gratifying experiences being “slutty” with her man in the right context.

It is a celebration of her sexuality in the rawest sense.

Most women don’t “want” to be slutty, meaning they don’t sit around wishing and hoping that they were sluts. But the following point is key:

After a woman has been led by her man, in the correct context, to have ruthlessly expressed her sexuality and engaged in taboo sexual activity, she is elated and highly gratified.

In other words, she looks back and fondly reflects on having been “slutty,” and she looks forward to doing it more.

That’s how you get a woman excited about being sexual – and wanting to do it again and again, and again.

If you are ready for the power that comes with being the most potent lover a woman has ever had, you need to read more about “Bring Out Her Inner Slut.”

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

The only “type” of guy women make a move on first

When women see you for the first time, they instantly categorize you and decide which type you are.

And once you get “typed”, that’s it – she’s not gonna change her mind about you, it’s locked in.

Here are the types:

– The “nice guy” she will talk to for a few minutes and then move on

– The “warm up guy” – her first conversation of the night – good for free drinks and compliments to warm her up for the next guy

– The douchebag type of guy she will reject (unless she gets super drunk, then she might sleep with him and regret it)

– The creepy type of guy she stays far, far away from

– The “prize” type of guy that she will approach (even if she’s nervous or she thinks girls are not supposed to approach guys first)

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In the nightlife scene, there’s typically 5 “types” of guys.

When women see you for the first time, they instantly categorize you and decide which type you are.

And once you get “typed”, that’s it – she’s not gonna change her mind about you, it’s locked in.

Here are the types:

– The “nice guy” she will talk to for a few minutes and then move on

– The “warm up guy” – her first conversation of the night – good for free drinks and compliments to warm her up for the next guy

– The douchebag type of guy she will reject (unless she gets super drunk, then she might sleep with him and regret it)

– The creepy type of guy she stays far, far away from

– The “prize” type of guy that she will approach (even if she’s nervous or she thinks girls are not supposed to approach guys first)

Obviously, you want to be the “prize” type of guy, and this book will show you how:

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A covert method for amplifying female desire

Fractionation is a covert hypnotic method for amplifying a woman’s desire.

Would you like a taste of how it works and how things play out?

OK, let’s say you’re on a date and you’ve been escalating and talking dirty. The discussion has been getting increasing sexual and exciting.

You will get her to the point, say by the time you’re dancing in a crowded nightclub together, that she is totally engrossed in how she is excited for you. Probably to the point that she’s not distracted by all the noise and commotion around you.

This is actually a form of hypnotic trance.

Now you cannot get away with this for very long. Eventually, something will interrupt you two, such as someone bumping into her, which will pop her out of trance.

You want to be the one who ends the sexual discussion and brings her out of trance. You are the one who is leading, and you always take the environment into consideration in your work.

Now you fractionate by changing the subject.

Fractionation is a hypnosis term meaning that when you have her in trance, you occasionally take her out such that when you put her back in trance, she will tend to go in even deeper and more quickly.

Change the subject by turning slightly towards the bar and saying, “Baby, I love when we are together. How are we doing on drinks here? How is your drink?” This rewards her for following your lead and then does the fractionation.

She will notice that she has been talking very sexual with you inside the crowded nightclub. She will compose herself and maybe take a deep breath.

At this point, she may slap your chest and say with a big smile, “You’re bad!” Simply slightly smile back and return your thoughts to your drinks.

Just slightly smile and say something like, “Yeah but you love it.”

If she insists by continuing with, “You’re a bad boy, you know that, right?” Look her directly in the eyes and say, “Baby, you make me so excited for you that I am taken away by my desire for you.” This is one of the few things that you put the responsibility on her for. You blame her for making you so desirous of her.

This is a good thing. Women love it when their man is turned on by her. Women love it when their man desires her so badly.

This is not the time to leave to go home. No, certainly not. You are in no hurry. She is only getting warmed up. She still wants to enjoy the experience being with you at the club, and she still wants more mental foreplay.

And every time you fractionate and come back, she’s at a higher level of arousal.

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