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Category: Dating

The power-combo of meeting girls and “tiny habits”

Can you actually reach your goal of meeting The One in less than 2 minutes?

No… but you CAN make a good habit that will help you do it.

Habits are the glue that keeps your life together. So give it a read. It will help you take your skills to the next level… and even help you create habits in any area of your life… and do it in less than 2 minutes.

It’s a method called “Tiny Habits” that I learned from James Clear.

Tiny habits are essentially small moves that can add up to major progress over time.

It reminds me of the movie Contact, when Jodie Foster’s dad was teaching her how to use an old ham radio. “Small moves, Ellie. Small moves”.

Exponential progress is really interesting stuff. Maybe you’ve heard the old analogy, “If you only got a penny a day and doubled it every day, in a month you’d be a millionaire.”

It’s so much easier to think, “I’m going to only focus on my goals for a few minutes a day,” and then try to stop after once you get some momentum, than taking on your goals one large chunk.

Here’s the approach: set your phone timer for 2 minutes. That’s all. Then laser-focus for those 2 minutes on whatever it is you’re doing.

This works particularly well when you’re trying to meet a woman or a man of your liking. Because it automatically removes all the pressure and expectations. 2 Minutes is all it takes.

If you don’t have ‘Attract Hotter Women’ yet, grab your copy here right now:

Attract Hotter Women

Better yet.

Tiny Habits don’t just work for meeting women and men — they work for just about anything.

After that, I want you to pick one specific goal you have and only work on it for only two minutes.

You’ll probably want to keep going, but don’t Stop at 2 minutes. Do that every day for a week. Then watch what happens. You’ll see a powerful habit form, and you’ll want to work at it longer.

Let me know how this works for you.

Brene Brown and Curing Nice Guy

At the core, we all want deep connection.

We want to see others and be seen.

We have a right to want connection and sex with women.

Nice Guys deny this and make it a source of shame.

We need to know how to stop this and recover.

Famed researcher, Brene Brown, has deepened and broadened our understanding of the plight of the Nice Guy, what he really wants, and how to recover.

It is the key to unlocking yourself and doing the inner work that sets you free, emotionally and spiritually and takes you to that place where you automatically have the strong protective, vulnerable and incredibly sexy male presence that women crave with all of their being.

Click here to learn more… Cure Nice Guy

This is Gold… Secret Text Strategy

The copy and paste text message is down below, but first you need some CONTEXT.

I’ve got an important question to ask ya…

Are you finding yourself having to go out on 3-5 “traditional” dates with her before you get physical?

Do you find yourself being talked into these dates because you tell yourself that she’s NOT the kind of girl who will just come over to your place?

Are you spending a lot of money being this way?

How much would you estimate?

Are you wondering what the problem is?

It’s simple.

They see you as the “provider” and not the “friend with benefits”.

This might hurt to hear, but its the truth.

Would you like to change that around right now?

Here’s what you do…

If you have a “traditional” date this weekend, take out your mobile phone and use the following text message:

[Text message]

Change of plans…

Tonight. Wine. My place. 8pm.

[Now, press send]

You will be astonished at the response you get.

Seriously.

(I’ll show you what I mean in a sec.)

This is good for BOTH of you too

The ONLY place that you should be getting to know each other is in the comfort of your own home.

Remember, dating is for people who are already in serious relationships so you need to stop acting like you’re in one before you ARE.

(Re-read this paragraph again and let it sink in)

What if she doesn’t agree?

She might say, ‘I don’t feel comfortable doing that’.

All good.

No worries.

If she doesn’t agree for ANY reason…

You now know exactly who you’re dealing with.

She doesn’t fit your criteria for the type of woman you want to hang out with.

Simply text her back: Ok, cool. Reach out when you DO.

End of story.

Move on.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
Click here to learn more…
No More Shit Tests

3 Things You Must Do If You Get Rejected

You’re sitting at the bar when you see her looking at you.
She’s smoking hot and totally your type…

… and she’s smiling and making eye contact over her pink girly drink.

You’re thinking about going over there and talking to her…

And that’s when the voices start.

What if I screw this up?

What if I run out of things to say and look like a dumbass?

What if she’s ice cold and humiliates me in front of everyone?

What if everyone sees me get rejected and I get laughed out of the room?

Look, man.

Let me ask you a serious question…

What action do you take in that moment?

Do you go for it, or do you back down?

Do you plow through your mental barriers and emerge victorious and confident on the other side?

Or do you let your fear of rejection keep your ass glued to that stool at the bar…

… and quickly order another drink so you can pretend like you didn’t just wuss out?

Look, if you fall in that second category, I totally get it, I really do.

But you don’t plan on staying that way, right?

Of course not. Otherwise you wouldn’t be here reading this right now.

Well, the cold, hard truth is…

When you make the bold decision to step off that comfortable bar stool and approach the women you really want…

Yes, you will get rejected from time to time.

But that’s okay!

You just need to know how to handle it, so it doesn’t ruin your mood and wreck your chances with every other girl.

So let me give you some rock-solid advice that I wish I would have known when I was in your shoes.

Here are 3 things you must do if you get rejected:

1). Take the high road. Even if she’s being a huge diva…

Don’t react to her. Be BETTER than that.

She doesn’t even know you – she’s just emotionally reacting.

It may not even have anything to do with you – you can’t know or control that.

A confident guy would never allow himself to get flustered or thrown off by things he can’t control.

2). Smile. Even if you’re seething mad on the inside…

Because no one else knows that you just got rejected…

UNLESS you show it on your face.

Then it’s obvious, and every other girl who sees that will probably reject you too.

3). Move on immediately. Find another girl, a friend, a bartender… literally anyone else to talk to.

The last thing you want is to stand around by yourself, feeling butt-hurt because some random girl who knew you for 1 minute didn’t like you…

It does nothing for your confidence, and it makes you less attractive to every other girl.

So make like Taylor Swift and shake, shake, shake it off, bro.

Make sense?

You can totally see yourself doing that, can’t you?

Of course you can.

And now nothing can stop you.

Get out there and make it happen this week.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
Click here to learn more…
No More Shit Tests

The joys of bisexual women. (By David Shade)

Everybody loves pussy.

Even most women.

While sexual orientation in men is quite rigid, gay or straight, women are a different story.

Women who are otherwise heterosexual can often enjoy other women sexually, and it’s not weird or uncomfortable.

In fact, last week in my VIP interview with Jaclyn, she revealed that her first sexual experience and orgasm was with her best friend, a girl.

As many of you know, my old girlfriend, Suzanne, and I would pick up bisexual women for threesomes.

To appreciate bi women, you have to be strong. You have to practice dominance, control, and leadership.

To have threesomes, you need to create an environment where your woman can express the ruthlessly sexual animal inside of her (and the other woman too, for that matter).

Do that, and you will be living out sexual fantasies that other men just dream about.

Let me share with you a little anecdote:

One of our first threesomes was Cassandra, a stripper. We found her at a Goth nightclub.

I was getting drinks at the bar and caught sight of this magnificent brunette…

She caught me looking at her. I kept right on looking.

She kept right on looking…

After a few seconds of this, she smiled. I smiled back.

That’s dominance, by the way. You can’t express any interest if you’re shying away.

Suzanne and I get to talking with her, and we all start hitting it off.

It wasn’t long before Suzanne’s bi-sexuality came up in conversation.

At this point, Cassandra smirks, looks at both of us coyly and says, “I know where this is leading.”

She asked me how I feel about Suzanne’s bisexuality.

I said, “I think it’s very natural. In fact, in Asia, a woman’s first lover was another woman. A more experienced woman would teach a young woman how to enjoy her body. She would teach her all the ways in which her body could be pleased.”

Cassandra asks me how I like dating a bisexual woman.

I said, “I am interested in Suzanne’s safety and pleasure.”

Right there, I establish a dominant, confident frame.

I’m there to give her experiences. I’m not worried about myself, and I’m sure as hell, not jealous.

As is turns out, Cassandra told us that she was in a relationship with a man who did not appreciate her bisexuality.

He was crazy jealous!

Cassandra said to Suzanne, “You are so beautiful.”

Suzanne told Cassandra, “You are so sexy.”

We took her home.

I’m not telling you this story to brag…

I’m sharing it to show you what is possible.

Click here to learn more… about Threesomes

Your wife hates sex. Now what?(by David Shade)

Nice Guy behavior, which is rampant today, destroys lives and destroys marriages.

As far as I’m concerned, it’s a public health menace.

Today I’m going to share a letter that Michael wrote to me for some advice on how to get his wife interested in sex again.

As you’ll see, I immediately saw some far deeper problems with Michael’s situation and took him to task with some very tough love.

Here’s Michael:

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“My wife is a looker – former Miss Mississippi.

I’m 49; she’s 40. Been married for 15 years. She still has no wrinkles and is in great shape. She says she is burnt out on sex. It sure isn’t from lack of it; I could go ten times a day if she would.

She has never enjoyed me eating her pussy or anything to do with her tits.

She had breast implants when she was younger and claims she can’t even stand a kiss on them because it’s ‘too much.’ She cringes when I get the idea of kissing her in the lower regions.

She draws up and claims that any licking, etc. is to ‘yucky’ or ‘nasty.’ I can’t even French kiss her. She can’t stand kissing.

She refuses to watch porn, doesn’t drink, won’t try any drugs, but otherwise is a great person.

She says I have worn her out with too much sex. I’m not sure how to interpret this.

“Give me some time without wanting to have sex,” is something I have heard a lot.

I need some help here. This is a tough one.

Michael”

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Oh wow.

Where to begin?

Michael…

She sounds very concerned about her looks and wouldn’t dare smear her lipstick.

Frankly, she sounds like a dud.

Why did you marry her? Because she was so hot?

I certainly made that mistake once. She was hot as hell. After eight years of marriage and two kids, she left me for another man. It wasn’t anything I did wrong.

My only fault was that I chose wrong.

At your ages, she should be getting hornier, and you less horny.

I have bad news for you, Michael. It is going to be hard for you to take this:

Her decrease in interest in sex is the FIRST sign.

She is not getting what she needs in the relationship.

Since she is not being fulfilled in the relationship, she has lost her passion for you.

The lack of sex is only a symptom, not the problem. She may not know why her interest in sex has diminished or why she has lost passion for you.

Finding creative ways of being more sexual is not going to help. It is only going to be more irritating to her.

Every woman in such a situation has different reasons for why the sex has gone dry. She will make various excuses for not having sex. She will invent ways not to have sex.

She probably won’t talk, and she probably doesn’t know what’s wrong.

You are probably walking on eggshells, out of fear of loss.

I know, I was in that situation. But that just prolongs the agony.

Not confronting the problem is even more of a turnoff.

“He’s a pushover, so I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing, so I don’t have to deal with the security issue.”

She loses even more respect for you.

She may already be out there sleeping with another man.

Hell, she could be contemplating leaving.

I have dated women like this following their divorce.

All of a sudden, their sexuality is brought to life, and they become wild screaming crazed animals that can’t get enough.

What you need is to get ahold of yourself and stop being needy.

You need to learn how to be a dominant man, re-seduce your wife, and make her WANT YOU again.

I suggest you take a look at Bring Out Her Inner Slut – time to go hardcore.

Go big or go home. Your marriage is circling the drain. Put your big boy pants on and do something drastic.

Michael, she has to start following your lead, or it’s all over.

Click here to … Bring Out Her Inner Slut

The major value of goals…

Let’s answer a question from one of the readers in today’s newsletter.

** Question From a Reader **

“…I’m very frustrated that I’m not making progress and reaching my goal of being a great seducer. It seems so far away and all the stories I hear about other guys having success just depresses me more and convinces me that I’m farther away than ever.

I can’t think of anything else. I thought obsessing over it would bring it to me.

What’s going on?”

– Jason

>> My Answer:

First of all, if your goal is to be a “seducer”, you’ve signed up for the wrong newsletter my man.

The only person you’ll be seducing is yourself.

Having said that, I’ll continue with some general advice on goals because…

From what you’ve sent me, that will help you the most.

I like goals and we all have them,

They are a good thing.

However, being obsessed with them over everything else in your life,

Or…

Having the wrong goals for the wrong reasons…

Won’t make you any happier once you reach them.

In fact, once you reach them you might be miserable.

And, you’re missing the entire point.

Agonizing about not reaching goals and forgetting what you have learned on the journey is…

A major waste!

The major value of reaching a goal is not to acquire it,

But it’s the person you become WHILE you are working to acquire it.

If you reach a goal, but don’t like who you’ve become, there’s no point… is there?

There’s a famous psychologist, Abraham Maslow, who created “The hierarchy of human needs”…

And do you know what he put on the top?

Self-actualization.

That’s a fancy way of saying, who you become while you’re working to fill the other needs.

And according to him, that’s THE most important thing.

When you realize that the game is not just about the goal…

But who you become during the journey,

Then some your goals may change.

Running the race and running well, that is the real prize.

Winning is not so important.

It’s how you play the game, not whether you win or lose.

Liking who you become is also what you are playing toward.

You want to become a better version of yourself.

Consider the goal of being a great “seducer” and tricking girls into sleeping with you.

When you get there and accomplish that, are you going to like who you have become?

Honestly.

Are you seeing it now?

Consider the goal of giving good energy, being inspiring and the type of guy who women are naturally attracted to…

A guy who practices effortless effort and walks around as if he doesn’t have a care in the world…

And when you get there and you accomplish that, are you going to like who you’ve become?

Of course you will. 🙂

So… when you set your goals, one of the most important questions you will need to start asking is,

“When I get there and accomplish that, am I going to like who I’ve become?”

Remember… who you become is more important than what you win.

Some people have their self-awareness dial set to, “numb”.

The reason is because they have pursued goals that weren’t worthwhile…

And even though they’ve been successful,

It’s turned them into someone who even “they” don’t want to know!

So change your goals,

Change your reasons,

Change your life.

Hope this helps.

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:
Click here to learn more…
No More Shit Tests

Challenges to your dominance

Women will challenge your dominance.

This has tripped up many a man, put him on the backfoot and undermined his goals.

So how to handle it?

I’ll get to that but first, let me re-emphasize that you must be the leader. You have a goal. You have a plan to get there.

You do not share your plan. Your plan is not questioned. You simply provide direction that is to be followed.

That is what dominance looks like in practice.

You never allow your dominance to be challenged. “But she DOES challenge my dominance,” you say…

Here’s how you handle it:

You never ACKNOWLEDGE her attempts to challenge your dominance.

You never RESIST her challenges to your dominance, because that would acknowledge her challenges to your dominance, and that would allow your dominance to be challenged.

Instead, you simply LEAD.

There are two types of women who will challenge your dominance: 1) women who don’t want you to be dominant, and 2) women who want you to be dominant but are just making sure you are dominant.

Women will challenge your dominance in many ways, including: 1) telling you what to do, 2) asking you why you’re doing what you’re doing, and 3) refusing to comply to your requests.

You must receive absolute 100% compliance to your dominance. Anything less than complete 100% compliance is NON-compliance. It’s either there, or it’s not. If you continue without compliance, she will never become empowered as a sexual creature. Period.

If she refuses to comply with your requests, she has started a “compliance battle.” If she wins the compliance battle, she wins the “dominance struggle,” and that makes her the dominant, and that makes her the leader.

But women don’t want to be the leader. So she didn’t “win” after all; she just remained in her old dis-empowered programming.

Dominance struggles are not something you “win over her.” Dominance struggles are simply something that you are responsible for managing. You just keep right on being the leader. Either she follows your lead, or both parties lose.

PS – This seems a little intimidating, doesn’t it? It’s OK you can admit it. And I’ve got you covered.

“Be The Fucking Man,” gives you examples and case studies about how to deal with and win these compliance struggles.

Let me show you exactly how it’s done here.
Be The Fucking Man!

If it’s a relationship you want… do NOT push her hard to have sex!

If you want a relationship with a woman, do NOT push her hard to have sex. If you push hard for sex, she will think you are only in it for that, and it will reduce any respect she has for you.

And it makes you just like all the other guys. Be different.

A central part of your allure is that you are different.

Remember the “one-night stand clause.” If a woman sleeps with a man on the first night, usually, she never sees him again, especially if he pushes hard for sex.

For some women, if she has a one night stand, no matter how good the guy was in bed, she feels cheap and has remorse.

She then has to pretend that it didn’t happen by denying it to herself. But that is not possible, so she just denies him. And she believes that he sees her as being cheap.

For other women, whether she specifically set out for a one night fling or not, if she meets a man, she finds attractive, and he pushes hard for the first night close, she just may take him up on it, for the fling of it. She knows that she throws aside any hope of a relationship with him.

In other words, she makes the conscious decision to reduce her respect for him. He is not good enough for a relationship, he is only good enough for a one night stand.

There are exceptions, but as a general rule, if you want to see her again, stay out of the one-night stand category.

Ok, so things you SHOULD do in order to set the stage for a relationship, as opposed to a one night stand.

Don’t be pushy or needy. Listen. Convey that you are interested. And above all else, demonstrate a STRONG LEAD as you set a powerful foundation for a wildly sexual relationship.

And you must be deliberately doing this as you go.

This is exactly what you will learn in “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms.” It’s so much more than orgasms.

It will show you exactly how to set the relationships up correctly from the start. No guesswork, only proven principles that deliver.

Click here to learn more… Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms

Are You a Nice Guy? Then you Need THIS

He was a “nice guy”… he respected and cherished women. And if he ever got a girlfriend, he knew he would treat her like a queen…

But girls couldn’t see that about him… and every girl he met always passed him up for the “bad boy” who would only cheat on her, hurt her, or even abuse her…

I don’t know what it is, but women nowadays don’t seem to appreciate what’s right in front of them!

They say they want a good man… but then they refuse to even give the good men a chance!

Instead, they keep you locked up inside their friend zone…

It’s not right, and it’s not fair… but there IS something you can do about it.

Here’s what you can do to DEMOLISH her friend zone and get inside her tight little end zone:

Click here to learn how to … Cure Nice Guy

See, the “friend zone” happens because you haven’t triggered her sexual imagination (yet).

A girl needs to think of you sexually and imagine you banging in her MIND first… then she’ll wanna do it for real.

But did you know…

There’s actually a way to FORCE those thoughts into her head and make her fantasize about you…

…even if she says you’re not her type and she doesn’t see you that way.

So she will soon become dripping wet and desperate to have you…

Click here to learn how to … Bring Out Her Inner Slut

She can’t control this, and she won’t even know it’s happening.

She’ll just suddenly feel that… finally… YOU are the “good guy” she’s been waiting for all along…

Kinda like in those romantic movies girls love and get off to all the time…

And don’t worry, you don’t have to put it all on the line or try anything risky.

All you need to do is repeat a few innocent words and phrases…

Phrases designed by scientists to make a flood of sexual hormones come inside her mind…

And make her desperately horny for YOU.

Go here now to learn how to Bring Out Her Inner Slut, or stay locked up in friend zone hell forever.