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Category: Dating

How to turn tables and use Girl’s “Tricks” Into Them Chasing You

I’m going to let you in on a little secret…

You can actually “trick” a girl into chasing you.

Yep.

Girls are sort of “pre-conditioned” to chase certain types of guys.

I call them players.

And I’m not talking about the cheesy movie version a player…

I’m talking about that guy you know who ALWAYS has a girl he can call.

No matter how late it is- he can pull out his phone and some girl is ready (eager) to come over to his place for sex.

And we’re not talking about fat or ugly chicks.

These guys are pulling the “good girl.” The girls you probably secretly have crushes on. The girls you think would never go for him.

But she does.

Time and time again. She chases him. She desperately tries to please him in the bedroom. And she winds up dating him.

So the question becomes WHY?

Why is it “easy” for some guys? And why do other guys seem to struggle with women their entire lives?

The answer is going to surprise you.

(HINT: In my last email I talked about how I modeled negative behavior around women from my father)

These guys “think” differently than the rest of us.

Yes.

It’s not their looks. It’s not how “smooth” they are. And its certainly not how much money they make.

It’s the way they “think.”

Click to learn more…

Here is a fundamental concept you MUST understand if you
want to get better with women.

Thoughts = Action

This means that the way you think determines how you act.

Let me give you a ‘real world’ example of how this works in the dating world.

If you think “women don’t like sex” or “I’m doing something wrong by hitting on a woman”

Your actions are a direct result of those thoughts.

This means you probably hesitate making a move on a girl. You hide your sexual intentions. You downplay the fact that you want to sleep with her.

And women can pickup on this immediately.

She can sense your “hesitation.” She notices how self-aware you are. She gets a “vibe” that you would be BAD in bed.

Every thought you have produces an action.

Thoughts produce nervous gestures. Thoughts produce needy behavior. Thoughts produce “trying too hard.”

This is why some guys- no matter how much dating advice they study- never seem to “get it.”

It has nothing to do with learning more techniques or lines.

And it has everything to do with the way they THINK.

Want another example?

Why do you think girls are “naturally” more attracted to players?

Hint. It’s a trick question.

The answer is they’re NOT.

Sometimes its quite the opposite. A girl’s first reaction to these guys are to dismiss them. To blow them off. Or to even make fun of them.

You’ve probably noticed this at some point. A girl you knew talked shit about how she wasn’t attracted to his “type”

…And then she f*cked him. And became desperate to make him her boyfriend.

So how did “thinking” get him laid?

This guy understood that attraction isn’t black or white. It’s a sliding scale.

He’s COMFORTABLE even when a women isn’t giving him signs. When she’s resisting him. Even when she’s actively rejecting him.

Because he knows his only job is to keep tipping the scale towards attraction. He never expected her to be instantly attracted to him. He knew he was going to have to work for it a bit.

Learn a new way to think about women, and combine it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

On the other hand…

Too many guys think a woman needs to be instantly attracted to them. And they can’t handle what I call the “grey zone”

The “Grey Zone” is that period where a woman still hasn’t made up her mind about you.

Here’s a secret.

The battle is WON or LOST in the Grey Zone.

And if you want to win more battles you need to change the way you THINK about “attraction.”

Thoughts = Action

And every decision you make it sending subtle signals to a woman letting her know if you’re worth talking to…

Learn to control your thoughts… And ultimately you learn to control what a woman THINKS about you.

Here’s the good part.

And by learning to think like these guys, you’ll begin getting the same results as these guys.

And have get her chasing you;

Click to learn more…

Enjoy!

P.S. When you get “inside the mind” of a player you begin to naturally make the same decisions these guys make.

Click to learn more…

Why you should Only Give Out Your Number?

Today I want to talk about phone numbers.

Getting them…

More specifically I want to tell you why you should only give YOUR number out and not ask for hers.

Look, I totally get it.

Giving out your number might be tough at first because you really don’t believe in it.

Don’t worry if the texts don’t come pouring in at first.

Be patient.

Do it consistently and it’ll end up paying off.

The payoff is worth anything you have to go through.

You see, you’re probably going to be very attached to seeing her again…

Like she’s the last girl you’ll ever meet…

And C’mon, you know better, but, that’s how strong your inner voice is.

The thing you need to realize is this… the more you give your number out, the more comfortable you’ll be.

Soon, they will start texting you and then your life will never be the same again.

With each text, you’ll become more confident.

Each one giving you the resolve to give out more numbers.

Pretty soon you’ll become super smooth; Like you’re not even thinking about it.

Your internal frame will be “I only give out my number because this is the way the world works…”

They will question you less and less until there will be NO question…. it will become the way it is for you.

It will be a great lesson for many other things that you want to change about your life as well.

I know you think that when you have the number you have the power, but,

… YOU DON’T.

Even she sometimes thinks you do as well: But she’s only LOANING it to you.

She knows as soon as you reach out, you’ll be returning it to her.

You gotta understand something, getting her to give you her phone number or e­mail address is NOT an accomplishment.

It does not make you cool or successful either.

It makes you like ‘most guys’ and ‘most guys’ are unsuccessful with the ladies.

I know this is hard to swallow.

But the truth is often painful and reversing your “social programming” is not going to be a walk in the park, so to speak.

Now, I know what you’re thinking:

“Are you out of your mind!”

“I can’t even get numbers at this point so giving mine out just sounds ridiculous and wayyyy too advanced!”

“This technique seems backwards”

“Why would I give them the control?”

“What if she doesn’t text? I’ll be waiting and feel helpless”

(Insert any other BS excuses you have here)

These are just excuses you make for not trying.

You’ve got to give this up and stop being attached to the outcome.

This is the issue.

We can talk about everything else until the cows come home, but this, being attached to the outcome IS the issue.

Consider this:

She will give you her number to be nice or to get rid of you, so you really don’t know if she’s interested.

She has a love/hate relationship with attention and having a lot (even if it’s not from the right guy) is better than having none.

She will give you the wrong number. Has this ever happened to you?

She won’t always return your emails, text messages or phone calls.

Whether you text, email or IM you’ll only connect with a small percentage, and that’s if you’re great.

Getting their number and texting them first, sets a precedent for how things will be if you hook up regularly.

Because you have set yourself up as “the pursuer” instead of the pursued, things will then be expected of you.

Even if you become great at getting numbers and hooking up, it’ll become a full time job (you’ll be doing way too much work).

I’m telling you this from experience.

Let’s be clear, you are NOT in control.

Getting a number means nothing.

(I’m getting nauseous writing this)

When she texts YOU first, she’s no longer a prospect, she’s a sale.

And one thing you need to know is that she only text’s men she’s interested in.

You already did the selling, by giving her your number instead of taking hers.

The only thing you need to do, to “service your new client”, is respond to her text and schedule her appointment with you.

No maintenance is needed.

That’s what happens when you make the product out of high quality parts in the first place.

You don’t have to be as funny, as clever, as interesting or as attentive.

You don’t have to be ANYTHING!

Having phone numbers doesn’t make you powerful, it drains your power and sets you up for failure!”

Make sense?

Ok, so you might be reading this and you’re probably wondering…

“That Was Aweseome, But What’s The Best Way For Me To Really Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

I’ve spent a YEARS figuring out what makes women feel attracted to some men… and then testing out what works in the real world.

If you’re ready for SUPER success right away, then I highly recommend that you go download my online ebook “Attract Hotter Women“.

It’s a great introduction to all of my main concepts, and it contains dozens and dozens of great ideas for meeting women.

You can download it now, and be reading it in just a few minutes.

Download it here:

http://www.attracthotterwomen.com/letter

Bottom line: Go order your copy. Let me help you get on the FAST TRACK to success with women … instead of staying on the SLOW TRACK.

…and if you already have AHW and you’re ready for a world-class education on passing her tests, then check out my newest ebook “The Shit Test Encyclopedia”

It’s jam-packed with information that will blow your mind, and you’ll learn secrets that you can’t find anywhere else at any price. And the best part… A 100% NO-QUESTIONS-ASKED Money-Back Guarantee. If you’re not thrilled, just let us know for a full refund. I’m serious.

It’s at:

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And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys,

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, check out my new book:

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There is specific “road map” to follow that tells a woman…

There is specific “road map” to follow that tells a woman’s brain that its OK to sleep with you…
Did you know that a girl actually LOSES attraction for you if you don’t try to sleep with her?

Or if you go for it, but you’re “clumsy” about the seduction, even if she liked talking to you, she’ll still reject your advances.

Did you know “road map” to that most guys sleep with only a handful of girls throughout their life, and wind up marrying a woman they’re not really attracted to just because they’re scared of being alone or not having sex?

Did you know that all of this is reversible at any age?

That there is a specific “road map” to follow that tells a woman’s brain that its OK to sleep with you… and even compels her to crave having sex with you…

And not after weeks of dating, of buying her dinner or gifts, but the very first night you meet her.

And it doesn’t matter if you’re old, inexperienced, or spent your entire life thinking you’ll never be ‘that guy’!

Click to learn more…

Where to find the wildest women

Nice girls don’t do that.

Now how many times have you thought that yourself?

Here are some variations on that:

1. Nice girls won’t do the kinky stuff; they just want to make love.

…They don’t want to have really wild, throw down, rip up the sheets sex.

2. Nice girls are offended by dirty talk.

(This is one of the biggest things that keep guys from giving women what they want. In actuality, women LOVE dirty talk!)

3. What if she’s from a very religious family?

Once when a mentor of mine was asked about religious women, he said “Preachers daughters are the wildest, second only to the preacher’s wives.”

Inside the context of a very religious relationship, it is perfectly acceptable to be completely wild with your partner in the bedroom.

4. Another variation: “Nice girls won’t get slutty in the bedroom.” The fact is they absolutely love to.
Now here’s the thing, the women won’t do the kinky stuff unless you’re man enough to lead them.

In the real world, nice girls love wild sex as much as or even more so than the bad girls.

But…

Even though they want to get slutty, they do not want to be a slut or be labeled a slut.

So if you want this to happen, you are going to have to lead her, because she cannot initiate,
because that would define her as a slut.

She can only be wild with a man who leads her to be that way.

And only inside the context of a relationship behind closed doors where the rest of the world
would never know anything about it.

In order to unlock this secret side of your woman, or any woman, you must know how to properly lead.

A woman will not get slutty for a weak man.

Pass shit tests she throws at you and she’ll think ‘he’s seems different … I HAVE TO find out more about this man NOW!’

No More Shit Tests

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How to stop pursuing

When I mastered the art of pursuing, one of the problems I had was a lack of time.

I let some of my friendships falter, spent less time with family, gave up my favorite hobbies, travel and everything else.

Have you ever thought about what you’d do with the time you’d save by NOT pursuing chicks?

This may be one of the reasons that you haven’t stopped yet.

Take out a sheet of paper and make a list of all the things you do in the pursuit of chicks.

The list could include:

Buying clothes, homes, cars or material objects.

Reading 12 different newsletters on the subject of “Picking up chicks”

Going out to “pick up” chicks

Walking around afraid to talk to them or anyone else

Spending time thinking about how unsuccessful you are

If you happen to have some good interactions:

Getting some numbers/e-mail addresses

Calling them

E-mailing them

Texting them

Worrying about whether they’ll respond (or whether you reach out a second time)

Reaching out a second time

Worrying about a response again

Beating yourself up about it (if they don’t respond)

Taking them on dates

Reaching out to them again and again and again

Taking them on more dates

Wondering how to keep them interested

Wondering how to take it to the physical level

Manipulating them (and allowing them to manipulate you)

Catering to their every need

Maintaining your success

Putting up with drama

Etc.

(I could go on and on but you get the idea)

Now compute how much time and money you spend on each of these things.

How much free time would you have if you stopped doing all of it?

Now here’s the important part…

How would you fill that time?

Start listing some activities that would take the place of pursuing.

Removing pursuing and not filling the time may tempt you to start pursuing again.

Living more and being more are the goals here.

Examples could be:

Travel

Friends

Family

Hobbies

Learning new things

Etc.

This just might be the inspiration you need to stop pursuing and start living!

Ok, so you might be reading this right now, and you’re probably wondering…

“What’s The Best Way For Me to REALLY Learn This Stuff?”

Hey, I’m glad you asked.

Success with women really comes down to learning a new way to think about women, then combining it with the actual techniques that cause women to feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION.

If you’re ready for SUPER success with women, then I highly recommend that you go download online ebook “Attract Hotter Women.“

It’s JAM PACKED with ideas that you can learn and use starting TONIGHT. You can go download it right now and be reading it within just a few minutes.

Download it here:

Attract Hotter Women

…to get it.

This material isn’t taught anywhere else.

It’s the best investment you can make in your dating life, period… end of story.

Bottom line: Go get your copy.

And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

ttys

P.S. If you want more “come backs” to beat all of her tests, be sure to study the book:

Click here to learn more…

No More Shit Tests

Meeting Women Online And Other Great Places

Meeting Women Online And Other Great Places Today’s mailbag contains some GREAT questions… but one in particular just might change everything about how you think about meeting women and getting dates… starting IMMEDIATELY.

CLICK HERE

You’re really going to want to hear this, so keep reading to the end… Okay, on to today’s mailbag…

Q. ***SUCCESS STORY***

I’ve been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a seemingly great gal, married, etc. and she started being unhappy.

She wanted to separate and the more I tried to give her what she wanted the worse it got. So here I was, starting all over again.

Got your e-book, went on to test your theories and found a lot of it really works and is true, especially about not giving a woman what she wants (not directly or immediately anyway).

I went on to get your Advanced program series and I am very impressed at how much more useful information is there, especially the stuff about re-programming the way we think.

Now I’ve started approaching more and more 10’s as if I could care less about talking to them, poking fun at something they say, do, have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and bust their balls for it… but always in a playful, friendly way with a big cocky smile.

They eat it up and can’t get enough, so I try to pull back.

That’s where my problem is.

Since I’m still a newbie I want to keep going but I realize that’s exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give her the gift of missing me, and making her confused about what just happened so she’ll be thinking about me till we meet again 😉

This won’t be my last posting to you!

A. Well, my hat is off to you. You have done something that I have a lot of respect for… most men are too stuck in one way of thinking to even try something new.

Every once in awhile I get an email from a guy who says “Your techniques would never work”… or “I’ll bet you’re making up all of the emails in your newsletters”… etc.

Spotlight

Today’s “Instant Success” Dating Tip 

Meeting women online is by FAR the best training ground for learning to succeed with them… yet (unbelievably) most men have absolutely no clue how to make it work for them!

If you want to learn how to meet tons of great women, right now, right from your own home with VERY LITTLE EFFORT and ABSOLUTELY NO FEAR of painful, face-to-face rejection, there’s really only one way to do it.

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I Always Laugh When I Read Comments Like These

First of all… all you have to do is walk out your door, and try some of the things you’re learning. Just try them (like my student above did). Take a week of your life and try new things to see if they work.

It’s simple.

And again… congratulations again for actually putting yourself out there, controlling your emotions, and putting it to the test. You’re going to see dramatic improvements in the near future with women… because you had the guts to try something new.

Q. I’ve always been big into motivational materials. I’ve read every one of Napoleon Hill’s books at least 10 times each plus dozens of others from several authors.

I bought your program series obviously to increase my success with women but the material applies to all areas of life. I’ve watched it over and over and over again during the past 2 months and the changes are amazing.

A lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems to have been unleashed. Going out and having success with women definitely adds confidence to all areas of life but the self-image and self-confidence exercises you go through have had a lot to do with it as well.

For quite some time, I’d been working on finishing up a sales training book and audio program based on the huge success I’ve had in my selling career using unconventional methods.

Finally, about a month ago while watching your program again something just snapped in my head and I sat down, got the website up, got the marketing started, finished up the product, and I’m already making more money from that than from my job and already have booked my first speaking engagement!

Seriously, your program and the self-improvement messages and exercises had a lot to do with it. Thanks not only for more success with women but in my life in general!

FR

Phoenix AZ

A. Know what, FR? As you can probably tell, I’ve read quite a few self help books myself, and spent a lot of time reading motivational materials. And I discovered something very similar in my journey over the last few years…

Start Succeeding With Women, And You’ll Start To Succeed IN LIFE

There’s just something about being confident you can leave your house any time, any day, anywhere and meet women that puts your mind at ease.

In fact, I can remember five years ago or so in my own life… when I was single, I was insecure.If I didn’t have a girlfriend, I felt this strong insecurity and weakness. It was a kind of shadow that covered all of the other areas of my life.

Obviously, now things are very different for me… and you, too. Now that we can meet women anytime we want, it has freed up a part of our minds that used to be devoted to trying to figure out how to get them (and constantly worrying that we couldn’t).

What a HUGE relief, right?

I’d recommend that any man who’s looking for that same relief in his life click below right now… This will blow the lid off what it really takes to become the kind of man who’s successful with women — and in every other area of life as well:

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Thanks for the email.

Q.Finally a chance came to really test your book and I was overwhelmed by the results.

I had gotten your online book about 6 months ago and now that I’m out of Student Teaching I have time to put it to work. I was the DD for a trip to a really hot club in NC. I overcame my fear of dancing and got out there.

I was rejected by some girls but that didn’t matter: I ended up spending some good time with the most incredible looking woman I have ever seen. She is as if God had put her together out of all my favorite things in a woman.

I played by the rules. Left her and danced with several others just when things were looking great. Just before closing time I’ve got her by the hand leading her to the bar.

A couple of cocky/funny minutes and I have her email and phone number. What a confidence booster!

Only thing is, she is Spanish and doesn’t speak English very well. Thank God I speak a little Spanish myself. I just emailed her back (she wanted to know when I was moving to NC). But how to do C & F when English isn’t the main language?

Thanks,

Boosted but needing help still.

A. Say what, Boosted? You know how to meet beautiful women… but you’re emailing me to ask how to be Cocky & Funny by email with a woman who speaks a different language?

You’re killing me…

Don’t worry about being Cocky & Funny. It’s just one piece of the formula, not the entire game. In this case, this girl obviously likes you… so open up your “Bridges Report” that you got with the Double Your Dating eBook and read it again.

You need to get in front of this girl again, and do something. Now GET TO IT, and quit wasting time writing her love letters!

Q.***Success Story***

My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my looks will attract has provided little success with the hot women I wanted to meet.

I am 44 years old and have been doing this shy respectful what does she think of me frame forever and real results where just not happening.

I bought your advanced series and was hooked. Re-framing and not caring about the outcome is so powerful!

On the first night out after listening to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert with a friend of mine and I immediately interacted with a very attractive 25 year old at the refreshment counter.

At intermission we were back for more with her but just not really getting in. At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women walking by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who cares about the outcome frame and within two minutes one of them was asking for my number and actually initiated a kiss!

Women are competitive, I turned around and this attractive server was wide eyed smiling and also proceeded to also ask for my number. I am getting together with both of them after they initiated the first call to me the very next day!

I felt that power in almost every situation I encountered that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in total!

This was only my first step with so much more to come. Your series was clearly the best investment I have made in this women and dating area!

It works!

Thanks

N Z

Milwaukee, WI

A. Let me get this straight, NZ. You got 8 PHONE NUMBERS in one night out… Not bad for a shy and respectful 44 year old guy, huh?

But listen… that’s not the best part… The best part is that you learned an important lesson. You realized that women are ultra competitive. And one of the strangest aspects of this competitive nature is that the more attractive a woman is, the more competitive she usually is with other women.

This is exactly the reason why…

  • Married guys often get more than their fair share of attention from women.
  • If you’re out on a date with a super-hot woman, other women will look at you (and her) more.
  • If women see you talking to other women, they will be more likely to talk to YOU.
  • Walking into a bar and talking to every woman in the place makes other women more receptive to you.

I can’t figure it out for the life of me, but hey, I don’t ask why electricity works. I just flip the light switch on. And the situation you mentioned… talking to one or more women, then stopping to talk to different women, then turning back to the first one… is very powerful.

Paying Attention To Lots Of Women Says All The “Right Things” About YOU To Them

It’s like strong eye contact, or slow and deliberate movements. It instantly communicates everything that you need to say without words.

This is truly the easiest, most powerful way to start having instant success with women, and I recommend that any guy who wants to learn more about making it happen click here.

In the meantime, thanks for calling my program the best investment you’ve ever made in the women and dating area. I put a lot of time and energy to make it the best, and it’s great to hear that it’s working for you.

Q. I have your Advanced Dating Techniques program set and it was well worth the money spent many times over.

It has been amazing to see how many mistakes I have made over the years with women due to a weak inner game and understanding of women.

Thank you for taking the time and energy to put this series together. I am finally getting it. I am now putting your techniques into practice with a new confidence and will report back soon I’m sure with success stories.

My question is when using online dating services such as match.com, what is an effective way to describe yourself in your profile, what you’re looking for in a mate, and also what are effective methods for an initial email to a woman of interest?

Regards,

WHM

Irvine, California

A. Hey W, you’re busted… sounds to me like you haven’t listened to the entire program yet.

Later in my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I actually provide you with SUCCESS PROVEN EXAMPLES of profiles that I’ve personally used to meet women online, several examples of instant message conversations, and insights into the psychology of meeting women using the Internet.

Fact is, I actually met one of my last girlfriends on the Internet. She was 5’10” tall, and one of the hottest woman you’ve ever seen in your life. Not to mention intelligent, funny, emotionally stable, and a joy to be around. Best of all…

This Amazing Woman Contacted ME First!

All of which is why, also in Advanced Dating Techniques, I interview one of my good friends… the guy who taught me how to meet women online… and he shares some of his secret strategies as well. Learn more about all that here:

Advanced Dating Techniques

In the meantime, a quick hint about most of these online dating sites that most guys don’t know:

If you update your profile, it brings your ad back to the top of the pile and more women see it. So update your profile daily. Even a small change will do… and it will exponentially increase your results.

Now go watch THE WHOLE PROGRAM. It’s all in there, plus a whole lot more, including:

  • Specific exercises (that I’ve personally used for years) to help you improve your self image and eliminate all your fears and anxieties about women and dating… for good!
  • How to create powerful sexual tension that turns a woman on and makes her think about you day and night
  • How to smoothly take things to a physical level with a minimum risk of rejection
  • Every specific technique you’ll need to directly access the deeper, primitive part of women in a way that makes them automatically feel attraction for you

And much, much more… Point is, these techniques are so powerful that I personally guarantee to you that women will comment on them and even thank you for using them.

I know, sounds a little hard-to-believe, but I’m not kidding. This program is simply the best thing available…

It will teach you more great ideas than anything you’ll find anywhere at any price, and I am convinced that it will change your life, and help you meet more women.

Can you tell that I want you to get this program? So much, in fact, that I’m going to let you watch it all the way through… then decide if you want to keep it! No questions and no hassles, socheck it out here.

Oh, and if you’d like to read my world-famous online eBook, Double Your Dating, for a 100% risk free trial, click below – you’ll be reading it in just a few minutes:

Check it out here

In the meantime, thanks for the great questions. Keep them coming, and I’ll talk to you again soon.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

 

Allow fear to flow through

No matter how good you are at attracting what you want…

You may experience “down time” or periods in your life, when no matter how much you work on allowing great things into your life, you lose your forward momentum.

It happens.

Even the most successful people experience reversals of fortune…

But no matter what, they always seem to end up on their feet.

How is this?

What makes these people different from you?

Simple…

They allow fear to flow through them in the face of change,

Click here to learn approaching women…

And look for new opportunities or creative solutions to emerge.

Then, they take a leap of faith,

Even if it requires giving up old ways of doing things.

Here are some things to keep in mind which will help you through any rough patch:

Don’t freak out!

What goes up must come down, and vice versa.

During the down times, play it conservative in terms of managing your social life, for instance.

Meanwhile, don’t be afraid of new opportunities that could lead you down a different path.

Keep in mind that there just might be a pot of gold at the end of the new path…

IF you take some calculated risks to get there.

Allow the fear (of change) to flow through you,

And keep moving forward.

Many of you guys tend to get paralyzed in the face of change and a downturn in your fortunes.

Click here to learn approaching women…

If you experience fear,

Feel it flow through and out of your body,

Then move yourself down the path that you’re being pointed.

With time and patience, you are likely to find your life even better than before.

Keep visualizing the positive and resist the urge to allow the negative in.

When confronted with change, resist the urge to visualize the worst-case scenario.

This will allow you the room to come up with creative solutions to your situation.

Give up the past.

Sure, it’s painful to let go of what we know to be an absolute truth in light of an uncertain future,

But it’s all a natural part of life.

The sooner you give it up, the sooner you’ll have nothing to lose.

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Yes, women want it

Let me drill something into your head right now:

Women WANT to have sex!

Not as a reward to a Nice Guy, but simply because WOMEN LOVE SEX!

Further evidence of this can be found in any woman’s fantasy book, such as “Her Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. That will blow your mind.

Women have elaborate, intricate fantasies beyond anything men can imagine. For women, it is largely mental and emotional, and about being “taken” and “ravaged.”

So, more accurately, I would say that:

Women LOVE to get FUCKED!

In the context of consent, mental stimulation, emotional rapport, and trust women love to be taken and ravaged like the sluts that they love to be.

Now that does NOT mean that women want to be sluts. In the correct context, with her trusted lover, women love to become ruthlessly expressive sexual creatures. They want to get “slutty.”

In many cases, women are far hornier than men. One woman I knew who was in her late 30’s told me “I get so damn horny! I feel like a 16-year-old boy. It’s not fair!” Another woman told me “It gets worse at the time I ovulate. Every man I see with a cute butt I want to jump him right then and there and ride him hard!”

Did you ever know that some women have looked at you that way? It’s true! How does THAT feel?

(But they’re not going to tell you that.)

So why did all that social programming want us to believe that women didn’t like sex that much? It appears that there are a number of reasons for this:

Social programming protects women from men who only want to use women for sex.

If social programming trains people to believe that women must first be in love to have sex, or must first be in a committed relationship, then women always have a defense against men who view women as just objects.

It keeps young women in check. If parents teach their children that sex is only for love and marriage, then maybe their children won’t go out and have sex and get pregnant.

Interestingly, social programming does parallel the reality of being a woman to some degree. What I mean by that is the following:

Most women are sexually submissive. They do not initiate sex. Instead, they respond to their man when he initiates. And most women prefer it that way.

Women are excited by the fact that their man is excited by her. Women love to be desired and “seduced” by their man. It makes her feel feminine and beautiful.

Unfortunately, though, women are also victims to social programming. Social programming is interpreted to mean that any woman who loves sex must be a slut.

Even though women love sex, they’d never admit it to a stranger. It would make them appear as a slut. And it would invite advances from men who objectify women.

The advantage of all this social programming is that since it is against social norms for a woman to love sex, it makes it even more exciting WHEN a woman demonstrates that she loves sex. Anything that is taboo is even MORE exciting because it IS taboo.

All of us men have been raised to be proper, polite gentlemen and we have been taught that to suggest sex to a woman would insult her because it would insinuate that she is a slut.

That piece of social programming hinders men and puts men in a predicament. A man wants to be sexual with the woman he is interested in, but he can’t suggest it because it would insult her.

The woman certainly can’t suggest it because that would define her as a slut. And besides,  women are sexually submissive and they prefer that the man initiate.

So what are men to do?

Change.

Change your beliefs.

Change your programming.

Program yourself with more powerful beliefs.  Empower yourself with actionable knowledge.

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Bring Out Her Inner Slut

Attraction is not a choice

A wise man once taught me “attraction is not a choice”.

And it’s absolutely the truth.

A woman does not get to choose who she is attracted to…

…Her emotions choose for her.

It’s NOT logical.

No man knows this instinctively.

It’s one of the key things I need to get my students to unlearn.

It’s the foundation of why I teach guys to develop social skills.

If, as a guy, you’re looking for a “logical” reason that a girl should be into you, then trust me:

You’re wasting your time.

The truth is, most of the time there is no “reason” why a girl wants a guy.

Her emotions are running the show. Period.

But…

This is great news for you.

Why?

Because if you can make her feel the right emotions at the right times…

Then she’s pretty much yours.

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