When it comes to winning back your ex, conventional methods like this hardly EVER work:
Begging
Saying sorry
Sending gifts
Offering financial assistance
Acting clingy
Unfortunately, those are the methods most people use. And then they wonder why they’re still single!
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See, a lot of guys think the “chemistry” or “connection” you have with a girl ‘in person’ will win her over…
But that is a critical MISTAKE.
Read this carefully:
“The game” is no longer won or lost in person, its played almost entirely online and over text.
Read it again. And again.
If you don’t ‘get this’ you’ll lose EVERY SINGLE woman you talk to. No matter how much she seemed to like you.
A lot of guys, especially older guys who hate technology, say I’d rather just meet a woman in the real world.
But here’s the thing…
You might get her phone number in the real world, but that’s NOT where the relationship takes place, right?
Pretty much all your conversations with her will be through text, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, or whatever other messaging app she uses.
You can’t avoid it unless you plan on dating 80 year olds.
Every time she logs in if you’re not there some other guy is, and you can bet your ass he’s trying to get in her pants.
And if she pulls out her phone and keeps seeing lame boring texts from you or you’re the “friendless” guy ’liking’ all her posts like some super annoying fan…
She’s gonna quickly lose interest…
And pretty soon no matter much she liked you in the “real world”, you’ll start hearing excuses like how ‘I like you but just don’t have time for anything serious ’
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Most men are not comfortable being in the driver’s seat.
They do not know how to give commands, both in life and definitely in the bedroom.
The pitfall of many a nice guy is to assume they’ll just be real bossy in the bedroom and hopefully their woman will respond.
It absolutely does not work that way.
You need to bring dominance into your daily life and incorporate it into who you are.
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What is it about old college professors that makes them so attractive to sexy young babes?
I’ve seen this story play out in many a Hollywood movie, so I did some research to find out how true to life this is…
Like, do gorgeous young women actually want to hook up with their crusty old teachers?
Or is it just a scintillating fantasy that exists in the mind of screenwriters and directors?
Turns out, more than half of college students admit to sexually fantasizing about one of their professors…
And around 15% of them have acted on that desire and done the deed.
Now, chances are the numbers are even higher since this is only the ones who admitted to it…
But either way, that’s a lot of women in their prime choosing to give their bodies to men who are middle-aged or older.
Which begs the question, what’s the appeal these teachers have…
And how can you use their secret to rack up your own sexual conquests?
Well, it all comes down to one word:
AUTHORITY.
Let me explain…
Imagine a 19-year old girl dreams of becoming a novelist. So she majors in English Literature and her professor is a 60-year old man who has had a couple of books published.
In this scenario, she’ll see the professor as the gateway to her ideal world…
He has already accomplished the things she dreams about, and is teaching her how to do the same…
Therefore he’s an authority over her world… and that triggers the need to seek his approval…
Which can manifest as an intense sexual desire, and wanting to be as close to him as possible.
This doesn’t only apply to English Lit. It’s true of all situations where a girl is studying something she’s truly passionate about.
That’s great, but I’m not a professor so how does this help ME? I hear you asking.
Good question.
What you need to do is take this principle of being an authority over her world, and apply it in your conversations with younger women.
Focus on finding something she’s passionate about – career aspirations, dream lifestyle, hobbies etc. – that you can demonstrate knowledge or expertise in.
If you’re much older than her, this shouldn’t be too hard to do.
For example, let’s say one of her dreams is to travel the world, but she’s never left her own country.
By sharing some of your own travel stories and experiences with her, it positions you as an authority she’ll look up to.
The key here is that you don’t just list off a bunch of places you’ve been… but that you focus on the emotional element of your experiences…
Such as how travel changed you and what you learned about yourself and the world around you…
Because THAT is the end result and major benefit she wants from traveling, more than the traveling itself.
It’s what it’ll do for her and how it’ll improve her life that’s really important.
And when you show that you understand her core desire like this, even better than she does herself…
That’s when you stand out as the authority figure she wants to be like and be close to…
Which ramps up her sexual attraction for you through the roof.
It’s your life experience and ability to share valuable insights with younger women that makes you so appealing…
And why you have a huge advantage over younger men who simply can’t compete with that.
Yet this is only one tactic of many that’ll leave younger men in your dust…
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If there’s one thing you don’t ever want a woman to think of you as, it’s ‘creepy’.
As soon as you’re labeled creepy it’s the kiss of death.
Pick up your balls and go home, because your chances with her are finished.
So if you wanna get some action, you need to avoid the landmines that set off her creep alert.
And when you’re an older guy trying to close the deal with a younger woman, this is 10X more important.
Here are 3 of the biggest mistakes men make, and how to avoid them:
#1 Too sexual too soon
Showing your sexual side is great. It’s what separates the guys who get laid from the ones who don’t.
But being too aggressive right away is a guaranteed way to end up in Creep Town, population: you.
Just because you’re ready for sex as soon as you see a hot girl, doesn’t mean she is.
Women need longer to feel your vibe and let the sexual tension build, rather than having it rammed down their throat (so to speak) right away.
That means don’t touch her in any intimate places too quickly. Stick to “innocent” touches and slowly progress as she becomes more comfortable with you.
This should go without saying, but also avoid talking about your sexual fantasies and fetishes right away.
If you get turned on by dressing up in a diaper while a woman whips you and calls you a bad baby – more power to you – but keep that shit to yourself…
At least until you’ve slept with her a few times and can begin sharing your fantasies with each other.
#2 Objectifying her
While women want to feel sexually attractive…
They don’t want to feel like just a sexual object.
For many guys, this is a struggle.
They’re talking to a sexy young woman with a bangin’ body and can’t help drooling all over her.
But this gets you lumped in with all the other chumps who treat her as just a body, without having any interest in her as a person.
It’s no secret that women want to feel an emotional connection with a man as well as a sexual one, so focus on creating that.
An easy way to do this and stand out is to only give her non-physical compliments early on.
The more attractive she is, the better this will work.
While every other man is boring her by talking about how great her eyes, smile, or butt is…
You’ll intrigue her if you notice her great energy, passion for life, adventurous spirit…
Or whatever else it is that’s reflective of her character and personality, not her face or body.
#3 Focusing on her age
If she thinks you’re only into her because she’s young, this will come off as creepy.
Especially if you’re much older, she’ll just think you have a fetish for young chicks and you’re looking to add her as another notch.
Instead, you want her to feel that you like her for who she is…
And that her age is irrelevant.
You don’t want to fawn over how young and beautiful she is, how she could have any guy she wanted, or how you wish you were as young as she is.
In fact, the only reason you should be talking about her age is if you’re teasing her for being too young.
Let her wonder is she’s mature and experienced enough to earn the attraction and interest of an older gentleman like yourself.
It’s something she secretly fantasizes about…
But when you seem like you’re worshipping her youth, you destroy that fantasy for her.
As as older and more powerful man, she should feel like she needs to EARN you approval and affection.
Don’t ever forget that.
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Have you ever noticed that hot girls usually give you a LOT more shit than average girls
It’s because they get hit on a lot more, so they naturally have more of a “shield” or “filter” against lame dudes bothering them.
Why do they do that? Because it works. Most guys get pissed off and flustered when a girl isn’t nice to them right away.
They don’t know how to handle it, so they just call her a bitch and leave (and get nothing).
Wanna know a secret?
When a girl is fired up, and maybe even a little bit angry… she is only one or two degrees away from being turned on.
That’s right – on a sliding scale of emotions, anger and arousal are very close together.
Wanna know the fastest way to stand out from those lame dudes and instantly turn the hottest girls on?
Always know what to say when they give you shit. It’s actually very easy.
Here are three tried, tested, proven examples.
1) When she accuses you of being a player.
You say: “Cool, what else do you like about me?”
2) When she acts difficult or gives you shit.
You say: “That’s it, I’m putting you in ‘time out’ until you behave.”
3) When she says “I’m not sleeping with you tonight.”
You say: “Yeah, not with that attitude you’re not.”
Yes, I really talk like that.
And trust me, those are rock-solid examples of what WORKS with the hottest girls.
Click here to learn more…
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Why are young women so driven to sleep with older men? The answer goes back as far as time…
Women by nature seek a man with good genes. And since older men have matured to an older age, they have good genes for longevity. Men appreciate with age.
Women by nature seek a man who can provide and protect. Humans (the highest developed species at the top of the food chain) do not value animalistic brute force strength as much as higher level qualities. Older men have power, resources, wisdom, experience, and relatively much more success.
Young women today want to be respected by society for accomplishing on their own, so they seek advice from a “mentor” who already did it.
Young women just want to be all grown-up. They want to have grown-up experiences and have grown-up sex.
That’s where the “professor fantasy” comes from.
And young women are fed up with “boys” their age who are immature and selfish.
But the biggest reason why young women long to sleep with older men is because it’s taboo!
Let me ask you…
Do you feel guilty about your sexual attraction for young nubile women?
…Society did that to you. Societal programming mixed in pedophiles and sex-abusers with any “dirty old man” who wants to sleep with legal adult 18-year-old women.
Don’t let anyone tell you what YOUR happiness should be.
Remember, 18-year-old women, don’t feel guilty about sleeping with older men. So why should you feel guilty about wanting to be with 18-year-old women?
And you don’t have to be rich or handsome. It’s not about money or looks.
…But you must have your shit together.
Some dating gurus may try to sell you a pipe-dream that any man who’s fat, broke, and playing video games in Mom’s basement can bang young hot chicks.
That is bullshit.
He would need a leprechaun as a wing-man and roll up for the date on a magical unicorn to get that shit to work.
Click here to learn more…
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3 Steps to Build a Social Circle Full of Beautiful Women Who Want YOU!
Step 1.
Be Social. Say hi when you enter the store or business. Strike up a conversation with chashier.
Step 2.
Get out of the house and go meet people. Give your attention. Be likable and approachable. Women take notice and get curious what is so special about you that people like.
Step 3.
Post more on Facebook, Instagram and other social media.
Hot girls LOVE to “stalk” guys online… so even if you just post a picture of your dog, or what you ate for lunch… you’ll naturally attract attention from some drop-dead gorgeous women who want to get to know you. And once you have their attention get them to message you.
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There are a lot of married men out there who are absolute idiots.
They get complacent. They neglect their wives. Make sure you never do this because let me tell you something: …If your wife is a beautiful woman, and you are not fucking her, it is very likely that someone else is.
Here is a letter from a man who has benefited from the ignorance and neglect of married men. This letter appeared in Playboy Advisor:
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“I’m a single, average-looking businessman in my mid-forties. During the past three years, I’ve slept with every married woman I have desired. I meet them in supermarkets, bookstores, and record shops. I invite them for coffee, and the rest is easy. From these encounters, I have observed the following: 1. I’ve not met a woman whose husband has made love to her properly in the past six months. 2. Many of these women had never had a multiple orgasm . Two had never had orgasms until we went to bed. 3. None of these women experienced any major guilt from these encounters. 4. Most view they are neglected and see our time as luxurious sin. In the meantime, I’ve collected a casual harem. I’m never pushy; they call me. Can you explain why so many men are such neglectful lovers? Signed T.G.”
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That letter was not to illustrate that you should go out and pick up married women. It is merely to illustrate that there are a lot of men who are lousy, thoughtless lovers.
Imagine if she could meet a man who met all of her needs, a man who made her feel appreciated, who evokes a deep, powerful emotional connection with her, makes her feel feminine and womanly and sexy, a man who gives her hot passionate sex. It’s the kind of thing women dream about.
Through her life experiences, she begins to understand what she must have in a man. Some look for it in handsome men, some in popular men. She must have that feeling, but through a process of trial and error, including disappointment and despair, she begins to understand what she doesn’t want in a man, like that guy who cheated on her or that guy who was too much of a marshmallow.
If she meets a man who is exciting, she finds that he is reckless; so she looks for a man who is considerate, but he becomes boring; so she goes with a man who is macho, but he ends up being uninteresting; so she seeks a man who is intelligent, but he is sexually bland; so she takes a man who is dominant, but he is in every way demanding.
If she could only meet a man, who had ALL THE THINGS that could make her feel what she needed to feel—a man who is exciting without being reckless, considerate without being boring, macho without being uninteresting, intelligent without being bland, and dominant without being demanding.
The formula for that begins with a nice, considerate guy who consciously wants to make improvements to himself and his love life. That’s where I started. That’s probably where you are now. This is where a man must start.
An inconsiderate jerk would never care about becoming a better lover. But Nice Guys can quickly become boring on their own – they must learn to become dominant and evoke powerful feelings in a woman.
Being sensually powerful means to understand and appreciate the sexual potential in a woman, and having the passion to bring it out in her, to bring it all to life. Part of this mission is to enable a woman to discover her OWN sense of personal and sensual power. Your attitude has to be one of sharing. It is about two people celebrating being.
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Bring Out Her Inner Slut
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By David Dupree on March 17, 2019 (https://www.gothamclub.com/david-dupree/)
I’d like to clarify something pretty serious that a lot of people–both men and women–seem to be confused about.
Women often complain that men only want sex. (Only?! Sex is pretty good, am I right?)
Meanwhile, men feel as though women are offering sex–but what they really want is financial security. They just want to get married and “settle down.”
Well, the truth is, both of these things are true.
However, it’s not nearly as bad as it seems.
I’m going to show you how these two truths cause women to play “hard to get,” and what you can do to seduce a woman who does this to you.
First, we’re going to talk about what women really want in the bedroom:
When It Comes to Sex, What Do Women REALLY Want?
I hear this all the time when my female clients talk about the guy they’re dating:
He doesn’t talk to me. He opens up with his best friend–who is a girl–but he doesn’t share with me like that! I think he likes her. I mean it’s obvious that he doesn’t like me that way.”
Meanwhile, men are also very frustrated. Many guys tell me:
She’s so full of it! I know she wants me. Is she just teasing me? She drops hints and acts like she’s getting turned on, and then she stops me and turns away…”
So what gives?
The truth is, it’s not what he thinks… and it’s not what she thinks either.
It’s more about what men and women want.
We talk about what men want in a physical way–because guys operate with the physical, and feel connected to the physical.
We talk about what women want, on the other hand, with emotional words. And that’s because emotional words are the language and medium that women use most often.
At the end of the day, both men and women want connection. They want to open up, and yes, that means sex too.
So what stops a woman from getting into bed with you… even when you know she wants to?
The #1 Thing That Stops Women From Getting Sexual…
When men and women get sexual with each other, it means that the man recognizes her physical connection to him–and the woman recognizes her emotional connection to him.
And for this to happen, the woman has to let go of her physical walls, and the man has to let go of his emotional walls.
This is what stops a woman from getting sexual:
When the man doesn’t “open up” to her emotionally.
Trust me–most women are not trying to grow old with cobwebs under their belts.
They want to feel the passionate excitement inside them, and the growing heat that starts there and spreads all over her body.
They want to explode!
But in order for this to happen, both the man and the woman have to give something up.
It Doesn’t End There…
Now, “giving up” makes it sound as though it’s not desirable–but it is.
Let me explain it from a woman’s perspective:
She wants him to get the sex out of her (or “into her,” haha)–but until he “teases” it out, she feels like she’s trying to hold back, or to resist.
Meanwhile, the man wants to open up emotionally, but he feels as though he shouldn’t.
He’s been socialized to hide his emotions–just like the woman has been socialized to hide her sensuality.
And when both the man and the woman are able to overcome these societal forces, then true connection is made, and sex happens.
Here’s a very important note to mention:
One of the changes in modern times is that it is far more socially acceptable for a woman to express her physical desire, than it is for a man to emotionally “open up.” Even today, this is still the case.
Back to the point, though. Most men know that, even when women want sex, the man has to approach it indirectly. He has to “sneak” it out of her.
That’s seduction, isn’t it?
Why, then, is it not as clear to modern women that they also have to “sneak” the emotional vulnerability out of the guy?
They instead complain that he doesn’t share–that he doesn’t open up.
This isn’t fair, but it’s a truth of modern society.
And there’s one big way to get around it:
How To Get Her to Say “Yes” to Sex Every Time…
If you want a woman to open up her legs to you, then you have to open up your emotions to her.
Obviously, sex doesn’t happen just because you open up to her, or she opens up to you–long before this happens, she wants it. Then seduction happens.
Most guys have experienced the feeling after sharing that:
Wow, I was talking too much. I don’t know what made me say all that!”
This is what happens when you are truly vulnerable with a woman.
It just happened, and it is natural, but–like good sex–it is a natural thing that has been neglected.
Click here to learn more…
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