Today I want to talk about phone numbers.
Getting them…
More specifically I want to tell you why you should only give YOUR number out and not ask for hers.
Look, I totally get it.
Giving out your number might be tough at first because you really don’t believe in it.
Don’t worry if the texts don’t come pouring in at first.
Be patient.
Do it consistently and it’ll end up paying off.
The payoff is worth anything you have to go through.
You see, you’re probably going to be very attached to seeing her again…
Like she’s the last girl you’ll ever meet…
And C’mon, you know better, but, that’s how strong your inner voice is.
The thing you need to realize is this… the more you give your number out, the more comfortable you’ll be.
Soon, they will start texting you and then your life will never be the same again.
With each text, you’ll become more confident.
Each one giving you the resolve to give out more numbers.
Pretty soon you’ll become super smooth; Like you’re not even thinking about it.
Your internal frame will be “I only give out my number because this is the way the world works…”
They will question you less and less until there will be NO question…. it will become the way it is for you.
It will be a great lesson for many other things that you want to change about your life as well.
I know you think that when you have the number you have the power, but,
… YOU DON’T.
Even she sometimes thinks you do as well: But she’s only LOANING it to you.
She knows as soon as you reach out, you’ll be returning it to her.
You gotta understand something, getting her to give you her phone number or email address is NOT an accomplishment.
It does not make you cool or successful either.
It makes you like ‘most guys’ and ‘most guys’ are unsuccessful with the ladies.
I know this is hard to swallow.
But the truth is often painful and reversing your “social programming” is not going to be a walk in the park, so to speak.
Now, I know what you’re thinking:
“You are out of your mind!”
“I can’t even get numbers at this point so giving mine out just sounds ridiculous and wayyyy too advanced!”
“This technique seems backwards”
“Why would I give them the control?”
“What if she doesn’t text? I’ll be waiting and feel helpless”
(Insert any other BS excuses you have here)
These are just excuses you make for not trying.
You’ve got to give this up and stop being attached to the outcome.
This is the issue.
We can talk about everything else until the cows come home, but this, being attached to the outcome IS the issue.
Consider this:
She will give you her number to be nice or to get rid of you, so you really don’t know if she’s interested.
She has a love/hate relationship with attention and having a lot (even if it’s not from the right guy) is better than having none.
She will give you the wrong number. Has this ever happened to you?
She won’t always return your emails, text messages or phone calls.
Whether you text, email or IM you’ll only connect with a small percentage, and that’s if you’re great.
Getting their number and texting them first, sets a precedent for how things will be if you hook up regularly.
Because you have set yourself up as “the pursuer” instead of the pursued, things will then be expected of you.
Even if you become great at getting numbers and hooking up, it’ll become a full time job (you’ll be doing way too much work).
Let’s be clear, you are NOT in control.
Getting a number means nothing.
(I’m getting nauseous writing this)
When she texts YOU first, she’s no longer a prospect, she’s a sale.
And one thing you need to know is that she only text’s men she’s interested in.
You already did the selling, by giving her your number instead of taking hers.
The only thing you need to do, to “service your new client”, is respond to her text and schedule her appointment with you.
No maintenance is needed.
That’s what happens when you make the product out of high quality parts in the first place.
You don’t have to be as funny, as clever, as interesting or as attentive.
You don’t have to be ANYTHING!
Having phone numbers doesn’t make you powerful, it drains your power and sets you up for failure!”
Make sense?
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And I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.
ttys
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